-74 Going to a strip club when you are in a committed relationship is cheating, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's only cheating if another person gives you direct sexual pleasure. A lap dance with grinding is cheating, but watching them is not. Watchign porn is also not.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Heeeeeellll no. I am demanding a trip to a strip club from my boyfriend on my 18th birthday.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I think it all depends on what you talk about with each other and what rules you have around cheating. If my boyfriend would tell me he was going to a strip club with friends, I'd not like it, but it wouldn't be cheating. I don't see watching porn as cheating either, but wouldn't like him doing so either. He knows this and respects my thoughts, so he won't do it.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I agree. Plus I'd like to add that, personally in my relationship, if the roles were reversed and he wouldn't like me to do it, then we agree it's not a good idea. If you can flip-flop the situation and nobody would object to the actions, then it's fine.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's not cheating if you look but don't touch.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

it depends on the relationship

by Anonymous 11 years ago