You can't blame me about not wanting to be around my boyfriend's family when they have stolen stop signs and misspelled curse words on the wall in their house, and all have a history of being cheating whores. Or me not wanting to have kids with him that'll be around the family constantly, amirite?

He means when we're older (which I HIGHLY doubt will happen.)

Your kids won't necessarily become like them though. If you really love him and want to stay with him, just keep the kids away from his family, or make sure they know right from wrong.

I know this going to sound really lame but I love him a lot. The only thing I don't like about him is his family, He's the only one who isn't like that- surprisingly. I really hate when he talks about having kids cause I can't imagine my kids becoming like them, it makes me cringe.

btw, I am the OP of this post.

Yeah i've thought that through. The thing is their family have a lot of gatherings and stuff so it'll be hard to avoid them meeting. His sisters I think will be the real problem. He has about 8 of them and they're all the same. I'm pretty much desperate for advice I can't tell anyone about it, thanks for the advice though.

No, but he wants to have kids with me.

*edit
i re-worded it better.

Yes, only because he was raised by his bilogical mother (who is the only person I like from his family) His dad lives with his other children from different mothers except for him. He's starting to see them more and more now though.