+306 Girls: Just because you refer to a guy as your friend (or even best friend) doesn't mean you would never have any romantic interest in him, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm just sitting here crossing my fingers every girl would agree.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

It's very, very true. Any guy who would choose not to go after the girl he likes because she's called him her friend lacks common sense. I mean, people who fall in love usually end up referring to their significant other as their best friend anyways, right?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

What about when they say "just a friend" or "only a friend" thats not quite the same as calling someone a friend. Ive even had one friend of mine tell me she would never date me even though i didnt ask her out. This girl actualy finds me attractive but says its wierd to like anyone thats a friend. Thankfully im not in love with that one but ive had another girl say in like a brother and just a friend after she previously was in love with me and nothing really made us dislike eachother except her being lonely from distance. blah... confusing -.-

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yeah, if they something like "I love you, as a friend/brother, of course," that's not usually a good sign but sometimes you can still go for it. But like I said, any guy who wouldn't go after the girl of his dreams because she says something like "You're such a great friend" is missing out.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Meh its complicated.... I dont even know why im telling you this much randomly lol I dont know how to be loved again. >_<

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Haha, I'm totally good with it. I like giving advice and stuff like that. You have to love first if you want to be loved. #cheesyquotesthataretrue y

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I already love most people in general. Not so much myself but i think if my esteem was too high it would make her bad esteem feel lower so i will just let her raise it up when/if im with her. Im a little crazy btw. Id go as far as moving to another country actualy.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Everybody's a little crazy, especially when it comes to love, which is totally a good thing.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Maybe but still dont know how to get her back when shes just been dumped by her last boyfriend and shes dated like 4 others since liking me originally X___x

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I would say wait at least a month (maybe longer, depending on how long they were dating) because you don't want to be the rebound guy, especially if she was the one who got dumped. Then, after a month, if you still feel the same way, ask if she still likes you. And if she does, go for it!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

In the past almost every time she wound up with someone else in a matter of weeks. Guys have recently really been predatory with her =/

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Mm, maybe you should just let her go in that case. But if you really, really like her, you can always try and be the guy who changes that.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Im in love with her.... been for over a year

by Anonymous 11 years ago

In that case, I would definitely wait a while and then tell her how you feel. You've got nothing to lose. I wouldn't say your friendship is at stake or anything based on what you've told me, so you've got nothing to lose smile

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I hope not =/ she doesnt talk to me much since shes had stuff going on and just is distant acting (i mean aside from physical distance too)

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You should start talking to her ASAP then and try to rebuild some sort of relationship before you ask her out. Otherwise, it will be really awkward.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

honestly dont know how to rebuild it since i dont know how i got so close before to begin with. I dont know what makes the real diference between friends and lovers interest like what tips the scale from one to the other

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Honestly, I can't really tell you either. It just kind of happens. Usually it's just a gradual thing where you begin to realize (I know how weird this sounds, but I hope you get the jest) "Wow, they're a member of the opposite sex who I could be interested in." And then sometimes you do become interested in them. It's pretty hard to explain.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

So true. I have the habit of falling for my best guy friends.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

most girls (that i know) want a guy who starts off being their friend.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's how I am, it's so much better than going on a bunch of failed dates with a bunch of guys you don't even know.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

This post could have gone either way- not just girls obviously.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I know, I just addressed it that way because there's usually more complaints about girls "friend zoning" guys than the other way around.

by Anonymous 11 years ago