Guys: you don't actually find it attractive when girls have prominent hip bones, and visible ribs, and thigh gaps, and collar bones that poke out etc., amirite?
Guys: you don't actually find it attractive when girls have fat rolls, cellulite, a double chin, and thighs that touch, etc amirite?
Offensive, huh? Well it's also offensive when you tell girls they aren't attractive for being the opposite. Different strokes for different folks.
I'm a girl but you're welcome lol and silvershadow I know those things don't necessarily mean you are fat, just like having hip bones or ribs showing could just be how you naturally are.. Get it? I wasn't calling people fat.
Most women have cellulite and thighs that touch though. And having a double chin doesn't necessarily mean you're overweight - you can have it from puppy fat or if you were bigger before.
THANK YOU. I eat.... More than I should... And I weigh 105ish pounds. I can't keep track of how many people ask if I'm anorexic. I SWEAR TO GOD. THIN IS NOT ANOREXIC.
Some guys may like that look and some don't. This is true, however the way that OP phrased this post sounded like they were some fat bitch with ten chins, who wanted self-assurance that she is curvy and therefore hot, when in fact, she is neither.
Any ways, my point is that this post is offensive to skinny girls.
Side note: why is anorexia now an insult that thicker girls use against thinner? If they actually were anorexic, then the chubby girls aren't really helping. They're only making things worse. This pisses me off so much because I have lost a friend to this disease and it shouldn't be taken so lightly. Just because you know a definition from health class doesn't mean you really know the first damn thing about anorexia.
"Eating healthily and exercising don't give you pokey outey bones" No, that doesn't give you pokey ass bones, but you can have pokey bones despite of that. Yes, eating healthy and exercising a lot means your body can now be compared to that of an Olympian's.
.> I assumed you were for some dumb reason. Probably because I'm online and got a notification. Sorry. Just out of curiosity, who were you talking to? New comment system is hard.
You're right sorry. It was to Kristen, because she was saying "What if some girls are naturally like that?" I was just saying it doesn't matter how you got that way, some guys like that look and some don't. :P
Also just as a side note there is a DEFINITE difference between being really skinny because you're healthy and take care of your body and being really skinny because you never eat. I hate when people generalize like this and make people who wow eat a lot of fruits and veggies and work out a lot feel like they're clumped together with the emaciated anorexics
Don't tell me I'm the only guy on here who cares more about personality than physique. Bones or not, I'd rather be with a girl with a good sense of humor.
That doesn't mean it's okay to be obsessing over it. The ratio to posts talking about appearances and posts talking about personality is probably in favor of appearances, by a landslide.
Okay, we skinny girls understand now. We get that very guy hates skinny girls and every girl who isn't skinny hates them too.
Exaggeration aside, you dot need to put people down to make yourself feel better about yourself. I personally prefer the skinny look. Does that make me a bad person? No.
Addressing the other (possible) issue: anorexic girls don't become anorexic in order to satisfy men, dammit!
Saying you don't like someone's appearance, or any quality about them, is putting them down. To quote anon, "Guys: you don't actually find it attractive when girls have fat rolls, cellulite, a double chin, and thighs that touch, etc amirite?
Offensive, huh? Well it's also offensive when you tell girls they aren't attractive for being the opposite. Different strokes for different folks."
No one was putting anyone down. OP has a personal preference and was seeing who agreed. You also have a personal preference and happen to disagree with this one.
Yeah, I see stuff like that all over tumblr and I'm like wtf is this? If anything I'd rather you just look slightly athletic. But look, if you have nice boobs and or ass, I'll overlook the "slightly athletic" requirement.
Guys actually tend to like girls that are confident in their appearance and don't need to get the opinions of strangers on the internet to tell them what's beautiful or not.
Every guy is different, and every guy has different preferences.
Collar bones and hip bones especially are pretty hot. But tits and an ass are hot too. It depends on how you look at it. I'd love for more prominent hip bones but I also love my curves :)
Guys: you don't actually find it attractive when girls have fat rolls, cellulite, a double chin, and thighs that touch, etc amirite?
Offensive, huh? Well it's also offensive when you tell girls they aren't attractive for being the opposite. Different strokes for different folks.
silvershadow, you missed the point.
Thank you, anonymous sir.
I wish I could love your comment more.
Possibly the best comment I've read in a while
I consider my self in the middle, but I always thought that tall, lean girls that are not very top-heavy are absolutely GORGEOUS.
I'm a girl but you're welcome lol and silvershadow I know those things don't necessarily mean you are fat, just like having hip bones or ribs showing could just be how you naturally are.. Get it? I wasn't calling people fat.
Most women have cellulite and thighs that touch though. And having a double chin doesn't necessarily mean you're overweight - you can have it from puppy fat or if you were bigger before.
What if some girls are just naturally like that or they just happen to eat healthy and exercise a lot?
The post made it sound like everybody who has those things is anorexic. I'm not and I still have a thigh gap and hip bones -___-
Eating healthily and exercising don't give you pokey outey bones, how many Olympians have you seen with a thigh gap?
Because Olympians work the extra fucking mile and probably have just as much fat as Kristen does, just a lot more muscle.
Genetics are a large part in how much muscle and fat grows in the body, believe it or not.
THANK YOU. I eat.... More than I should... And I weigh 105ish pounds. I can't keep track of how many people ask if I'm anorexic. I SWEAR TO GOD. THIN IS NOT ANOREXIC.
Some guys may like that look and some don't. This is true, however the way that OP phrased this post sounded like they were some fat bitch with ten chins, who wanted self-assurance that she is curvy and therefore hot, when in fact, she is neither.
Any ways, my point is that this post is offensive to skinny girls.
Side note: why is anorexia now an insult that thicker girls use against thinner? If they actually were anorexic, then the chubby girls aren't really helping. They're only making things worse. This pisses me off so much because I have lost a friend to this disease and it shouldn't be taken so lightly. Just because you know a definition from health class doesn't mean you really know the first damn thing about anorexia.
"Eating healthily and exercising don't give you pokey outey bones" No, that doesn't give you pokey ass bones, but you can have pokey bones despite of that. Yes, eating healthy and exercising a lot means your body can now be compared to that of an Olympian's.
And I wasn't addressing you..lol
It doesn't matter if you look like it naturally or not. That doesn't change the way someone finds you attractive looking or not.
You're right sorry. It was to Kristen, because she was saying "What if some girls are naturally like that?" I was just saying it doesn't matter how you got that way, some guys like that look and some don't. :P
@Tails not sure if insult or not
Also just as a side note there is a DEFINITE difference between being really skinny because you're healthy and take care of your body and being really skinny because you never eat. I hate when people generalize like this and make people who wow eat a lot of fruits and veggies and work out a lot feel like they're clumped together with the emaciated anorexics
/rant
I wasn't addressing personal preference.
Ahhh makes sense. I really wish there was a reply button next to every comment like there used to be.
If a guy looks at me and thinks "Her thighs touch, that's a deal breaker" then he probably wasn't worth my time anyways.
I like my girls like I like my fried chicken, thick, juicy, golden brown, hot, crispy, delicious, and... I want some chicken now.
And covered in barbecue sauce. Mmmmmm... the chicken, I mean
I am starting to regret posting this anonymously, I keep getting notifications of people loving it... :(
*not the post, just this comment.
I prefer hot sauce, myself. ;)
Don't tell me I'm the only guy on here who cares more about personality than physique. Bones or not, I'd rather be with a girl with a good sense of humor.
Well yeah, but what is there to say about personality? "Guys: You like girls who are nice to you, amirite?" "
That doesn't mean it's okay to be obsessing over it. The ratio to posts talking about appearances and posts talking about personality is probably in favor of appearances, by a landslide.
Gay.
Visible ribs, no. Everything else, yes.
Oh... I have almost all of these...
You are also green and have a shell.
I think stuff like that makes a girl look delicate, which is cute and a bit of a turn on. But those things aren't the most important traits in a girl.
wow let me marry you
The butthurt is strong in this one.
Okay, we skinny girls understand now. We get that very guy hates skinny girls and every girl who isn't skinny hates them too.
Exaggeration aside, you dot need to put people down to make yourself feel better about yourself. I personally prefer the skinny look. Does that make me a bad person? No.
Addressing the other (possible) issue: anorexic girls don't become anorexic in order to satisfy men, dammit!
YES IT DOES MAKE YOU A BAD PERSON. You can say thick girls are sexy, but if you say you like skinny girls you're a pig. Cuz fuck personal preference.
Saying you don't like someone's appearance, or any quality about them, is putting them down. To quote anon, "Guys: you don't actually find it attractive when girls have fat rolls, cellulite, a double chin, and thighs that touch, etc amirite?
Offensive, huh? Well it's also offensive when you tell girls they aren't attractive for being the opposite. Different strokes for different folks."
No one was putting anyone down. OP has a personal preference and was seeing who agreed. You also have a personal preference and happen to disagree with this one.
Yeah, I see stuff like that all over tumblr and I'm like wtf is this? If anything I'd rather you just look slightly athletic. But look, if you have nice boobs and or ass, I'll overlook the "slightly athletic" requirement.
are you a guy or a girl
this question obviously posted by a bitter fat girl
But... But... Thigh gaps D:
thigh gaps
Guys actually tend to like girls that are confident in their appearance and don't need to get the opinions of strangers on the internet to tell them what's beautiful or not.
Every guy is different, and every guy has different preferences.
excuse me for being naturally skinny, didn't know i was gross
Collar bones and hip bones especially are pretty hot. But tits and an ass are hot too. It depends on how you look at it. I'd love for more prominent hip bones but I also love my curves :)
Why?
I have a thigh gap and prominent hip bones but it's just how my bodys always been
Probably not things to be proud of..
It's a rough life being hideous.
Well thanks to societys idea of a 'perfect body' most girls now days have an eating disorder to try and have a perfect body shape.
Also having all this doesn't mean someone doesn't have curves, I have pretty obvious curves and a big butt yet I still have these
A girl can still be beautiful if her thighs touch
And a girl can be beautiful if they don't. It's subjective.
Very true