+94 It is terrible when you are at a point where your life can go in two different direction but you know that you are going to be unhappy either way, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

So you basically mean...it sucks to be in a dilemma, right? haha

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Well, the way your life goes isn't always in your hands. Sometimes, you have already done the damage and all you can do is wait and see what the consequence ends up being. You lose your chance of choosing. When it is not up to you to choose, how could you be in a dilemma?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You didn't phrase it to mean there was no element of choice. If you had, I wouldn't have inferred dilemma from it, now would I? :-P

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Sorry about that.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Situation: A guy you love with all your heart and which you are sure of will always love you just as much for the rest of your lives, hurt you (not by cheating or abusing you), unintentionally and without realising. If you leave him, you are sure you will be unhappy for at least a short while, and maybe in the future be happy again, with or without someone else. If you stay with him, you aren't sure if he will hurt you again, and if he does, how oftenly, but the rest of the time you're sure to be happy.

by Anonymous 11 years ago