+32 If you are in a serious relationship with someone and you guys are talking marriage it isn't too much to expect to be put first in their life, amirite?

by Anonymous 10 years ago

why first? people have multiple responsibilities and multiple people in their lives the priorities are ever changing some days you put your parent first your sibling first your spouse first your kid first your friend first your pet first your boss first etc. it just depends on who needs it the most during that time ....................................................................... when people get this mentality that they have to be first in order to be important it causes a lot of insecurity you can be very significant without being first all the time enmeshed relationships are very destructive and they can occur between significant others parent-child siblings friends it can happen in any relationship

by Anonymous 10 years ago

Anyone can talk about marriage. The actual act of marriage is an enormous commitment, and only then can you //consider// being put first to someone. Even then, a husband and wife aren't the only people that exist in the world. They have kids, parents, siblings, cousins, and friends. I'm not saying that a spouse isn't an important part of someone's life, but I think it's incredibly self centered to believe that you matter more than other people because you are in a "serious" relationship with someone. By the way, my comment isn't specifically directed at the OP, because I don't know anything about them. My comment is what I believe for an average situation.

by Anonymous 10 years ago

What does that mean? Over air? Food? I'd rather have them alive. '-'

by Anonymous 10 years ago

Absolutely. Good luck.

by Anonymous 10 years ago