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Focus on your own problems before you focus on another's.

Don't complain about someone's problems when you have problems of your own.

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Easy to say, yet hard to do. We are much more adept at seeing the problems of others, than ourselves.

@Daver Easy to say, yet hard to do. We are much more adept at seeing the problems of others, than ourselves.

People are bound to point out that person's problems. The question is whether they will admit it or not.

Sometimes the best way to solve your own problems is to help someone else.

you're always going to have problems so you're basically saying that you should never help anyone else

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@Bane you're always going to have problems so you're basically saying that you should never help anyone else

No, you can help other people. I am saying that you shouldn't think you are superior to that person, because everyone has problems.

And understand that what you
think is a "problem" might not be.
It is not a "problem" to have a 2 year old phone
It is not a problem that you want a $100 hat
but your mom won't get it for you.
It is a problem if you don't have enough food, shelter, water to survive.
So yes, fix your problem first
and separate your problems from your wishes

Because sometimes your own problems can not be changed due to many factors, and helping someone with theirs helps you feel better at the moment.

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