Not everything people blame themselves for is their responsibility in the first place.
I agree with you, Sofia!
I guess so. Some of us tend to blame ourselves for things we probably couldn't have changed, no matter how much we tried.
"Taking responsibility", or not, for something one knows damn well they are guilty of, is definitely a different thing.
It's sad people put people through that. I know that feeling first hand.
I know what you mean, Ser! Sometimes I have erupted.
Oh trust me I know that feeling all to well but ya know what...fuck em some just ain't worth it
I see your point
Blaming one's self is a start, which hopefully leads to taking responsibility in trying to 'right a wrong'.
You can say it's your fault, but if you don't do anything to even slightly fix it, then you're not taking responsibility.
But I don't blame myself ever. When someone insults (as the Bible calls marking your kids meaning they believe your hateful words) me, they're not marking me, cause I'll kick their ****. I'm too hardcore to be taken down, but I will respond equally. Not violence, but verbally, but if they hit me, I'll hit them back. I don't take crap from anyone. No "Friends"-watching Nord or any of them
Some lack the ability to admit that things are their fault. It's easier to blame others in their minds.