One of the absolute worst feelings in the world is to offer love to someone and have it spurned. Amirite?

Pretty much... It sure is a drag...

Love is when you are aware of a need and you take care of it. There are plenty of people who resent any such offering. For instance, some men think it is unmanly to accept any help at all. Some people have been hurt so much they won't even let you get near. We call them "junk yard dogs".

I think there is one thing worse than that in my opinion

I had a bad habit of only loving those I couldn't have. It's because I felt unworthy, so I self sabotaged instead. It hurts badly.