Apparently I managed to do this at the work christmas party the night before last. All I had to do was avoid her because we have nothing in common and wait for her to get drunk, then the rest of the party was me trying to avoid her, and people that I actually wanted to talk to were thinking that we must have some history even though she's married and her husband was there too. This is why I avoid work christmas parties normally.
Aha! Some drama...here...
Yes!! I thought all this crap was well and truly behind me until I became single again. Then just one person in the office starts saying that I had sex with her then it's like mud sticks and anyone decent who might actually be single will probably avoid me in future except her husband that wants to killl me. This is why I never drink when I'm out. I should have stayed home and ordered pizza and talked in here.
Sound like the usual...repercussions...ha!
Lol I want to go back to my old life where I lived under a rock and was immune to this..
Nice to know FortyRifles. I won't waste my time, then...ha...
Just turn on my magical charm. lol
Back up plan...lol
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I think you know. And I think you've been doing it all along...
It's those feminine wiles...
Oh just be yourself
Now you know better than that...you southern belle.
Oh I have always been nothing more than simply me
Caring more about that person than I do myself worked for me. 69 doesn't hurt either.
Often times people put up a false front to "make" someone fall for them. Many can keep it up for quite awhile. But the real person is lurking and shows up sooner or later. You want someone to fall for you? Be yourself, warts and all.
Perfume...allure...tight t-shirts? Aftershave...plaid shirts...some muscle?
Personal pride is a good thing. But pretty packaging, often times, is hiding an empty box. By the time i have wanted someone to fall for me, im way past the wrapping.
I don't know your answer? I only know you asked a question.
And I'm waiting for your answer...
I don't like answering questions. I like agreeing or disagreeing with people's opinions.
So think about it and tell me...what does it take to seduce you VicZinc.
If you want me, just agree with me
I mostly do with you anyway... Ha...
So I don't get any "love" for my reply?
Thank you... VZ.
Gotta go deeper then that sukie
Just like the food we eat has to be appealing to the eyes...so does the person...
To some degree...especially if it shows they've tried...just like any animal in courtship would...
You cannot make anyone fall in love with you. In fact, you cannot make anyone do anything in the long run, not unless you're willing to get violent. And while we're at it; you can't change anyone either. Only they can do that. Basically you're only in charge of yourself.
If you ever find that out, let me know. I've tried making a few people love me and failed each time, and not for a lack of effort.
Soooo...how to NOT make someone fall in love with you...
"Effortlessly" is the answer.
I had a cheap apartment in a lousy neighborhood. It was where the city jail put sex offenders getting out of jail. So this big black guy moved in next door. This guy looked like he stepped out of "Tom Sawyer". I put a note on his door saying "Tom, see me." Scared the dickens out of him. He was shaking when he knocked on my door. I gave him a box of strawberries and said "These were on sale and I got more than I can eat." He and I were best friends after that.
He fell in love with you?
Yeah. Or food. Or something.
I just tried to be myself. That weeded out 99.9 percent of the women and left me with the one I really wanted and married.
A ray of hope for singles everywhere...
And, a sweet story that should be told to future generations.
Huh? What's my post again?