All the disgust, mistrust, and fear you have of Trump is just a reflection of the feelings many have had of Obama for the last 8 years. We're more alike than you thought.
America did not turn racist overnight. America did not start disliking the Democrats overnight. There is no completely major new set of voters in the US. Sometimes you win, sometimes you lose. I have a sneaking suspicion that many of you complaining about Trump, actually voted for him. You just don't want your friends to think you're "one of them".