My parents had such a dreary life. They stayed home ALL the time. A girl needs to go out sometime....
We make decisions together, about what to eat, what movie to see, who to spend time with. Just now I made a decision as to what we will be doing tomorrow. It's no big deal.
A well-oiled machine?
Its difficult to get out much here in the hard winter, but we do SOMETHING at least once a week.
In the summer, i get a great deal of pleasure in my garden, property and projects. We go camping nine or ten times. Often close to home because i have to tend to mom.
Canoeing, tubing, fishing and family bonfires with tons of good food.
We cram alot in in a few months.
Oh I consult the Magic 8 Ball
Actually I use to let everyone (my best friends) decide for me. They are pretty good at telling me what I can & can't do in my life.
Now that I am choosing for myself I ain't going anywhere. I am enjoying the peace.
Just chat with someone.. see what they want and find out the best way to make everyone happy :)