I guess I was raised differently. There was always a right and a wrong time to talk about something. Plus ya didn't dare air out your dirty laundry in front of God and everyone. I don't feel this need to hold up a huge sign saying "look at me", I am pretty comfortable and happy with my life.
I generally prefer the former.
Discretion is underrated. I don't let many in because too many people share everyone's business.
Given those choices, I'd prefer the person who kept it to themselves. But sometimes vocing your opinion is called for.