According to others...do you participate fairly in an argument on Amirite?

Is there an effort on both parties to come toward some sort of resolution? Or do you run away and prefer not to deal with it... I mean...that's kind of WHY we are on here...to practise discussing and arguing... Some people seem afraid of it...especially some really nice people seem to avoid it. Why IS that? Please. JUMP into the DEEP end of the pool. Feet first.