When most people see or know a mentally disabled child or adult, our hearts and prayers go out to them and their families. But yet, on this site, I've noticed people giving snide or sometimes just downright rude comments to some that are having problems. Even though some of the questions don't measure up to what we would post, why do some people try to discredit or even cause her/him pain with snide or nasty comments, enough to cause her/him to leave the site. Would they treat a child of theirs in a discourteous way if they were having problems? I think not. Care to comment?