Just tell him...Unless your name is Willy Wonka...don't sugar coat it.
You should have included an Oompa Loompa song with this that preaches about contraception.
"What do youu get when the condom slips........OFF?"
The thought did cross my mind
Now I have their songs stuck in my head
Wait until the kid is old enough to tell him..
Sit with him and talk. Say it's serious and straight out tell him. I don't think it's possible to sugar coat something as big as this.
She already decided to sugar coat it.. lol
Well, if she can, props to her. I seriously don't see how it's possible.
That's why i didn't take it serious..
Send junior over with the birth certificate..
Holy shit! There's no sugar coating on that. That's straight up "Hi, you're a baby daddy. See ya".
Perhaps start by giving a believable reason for falling pregnant, one that puts the 'blame' on both of you.
Then tell him your plans.
Are you going to sue the living shit out of him for maintenance, insist on his contribution or are you going to raise the kid yourself if he does not want the responsibility?
Tell him straight up. It might not be the outcome either one of you were looking for but it happened and you both need to step up. Hopefully he's the type of man that will.
Tell him that you are, he is, and for him to man up and be a part of it.
Yeah, telling the ex is the big problem here.
First look at all the options you have, decide what you want to do and then discuss with him what other options you both have. Gage your final decision on his reaction to the news. He may surprise you.
You don't. He is out of the picture. That's why it's a dumb move to take off your pants before you get a legal commitment to support the kid.
He has to support the child regardless, at least in this state.
He needs to know, since he's the father. Tell him with respect