Yes it should be the goal of both parties not a one sided trip.
This is the sort of detail VicZinc would love to know.
And you were surprised when I brought up the V-word....
Always being selfless is not good for you either. I know. Trust me.
I agree 100% with this, people today don;t really love their spouses, they love how they make them feel themselves, and thus why divorce is at an all time high, if you truly love someone you will bend over backwards for them, you will do what makes them happy, their needs will come before your own, otherwise you don;t really love them
I agree. And when you're with someone...anywhere...it's just a good, decent self-sacrificial part of human nature to want to make them happy...anyone...a guest...a child, a spouse...or a pet....
This is what human beings should exercise more.