Underdressed, but in an OK way. I hate going anywhere when I'm the only one dressed up.
I don't dress up very often, but I did at a family wedding a year ago. It was a have to deal. I doubt I'll ever wear that dress again. lol Waste of money.
I have a lot of dresses, but they aren't the "fancy" ones for special occasions, just ordinary dresses for church. And now things have went very casual at church so I wear mostly slacks and a nice top. Never heels.
Neither one is good since they both put you in a questionable position, but if that's the case I'd prefer to be comfortably underdressed.
dressed enough to be 1OO% modestm, but light enough to not be hot
I never get invited to the parties. Must be my home-made sonic screwdriver.