Kids are just being who they are: kids.
You can't blame anyone for experimenting with Sex, Drugs and Rock and Roll....... unless of course it is HIV, Heroin and Rap music.
Just think of all Adults get to experiment in....
I sure can.
Like you didn't experiment with sex...
No, I'm normal.
That's not normal where I grew up.
It is where I grew up.
You didn't practise kissing? C'mon...while there are some practises ppl take too far...but kissing is one of the more modest ones...
You should blame the parents tbh
I can blame poor parenting AND the poor judgment of kids, I've had the opportunity to try a number of things but I've always refused.
Kids are kids and judgment isn't required much....
And I know you; you prolly made up your mind at an early age to say NO to everything just out of sheer stubbornness.
Stubbornness maybe, but a lot more because of sheer skepticism and doubt, it just didn't feel right.
But I don't think kids should be let loose without blame, this way we create a lot of useless entitled and ungrateful pieces of crap who would blame you for being a failure and a mess. People need to learn that they have choices, and these choices have an outcome.
For all the misfortunes I have endured I have never and will never blame my parents, all they did is provide for me at the cost of their happiness, working in country they don't like because the money is a lot better. My parents already blame themselves for leaving me with my grandparents at a young age, I basically became a man without them. They blame themselves for not being there for me in my times of need, but I don't because I understand what they did and why.