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Being broken up with

I've never broken up with anyone but breaking up with someone you still love is the worst feeling ever.

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You don't believe in a period of mourning?

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But you're so good at it...

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I'm just not in your league....

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They are both equally painful...in my experience.

Depends on who throws what

They're painful in different ways. Being broken up with carries embarrassment. You feel ugly, unwanted, not good enough. Breaking up with someone is painful because you're hurting them. You know what they may be thinking. "Why wasn't I good enough?" Etc. Now of course, these are "normal" circumstances, not talking about the dynamics involved when cheating or abuse come into play, for example.

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