I have been the other woman in so far a 10 year relationship. I was 22 then, I'm 32 now. He keeps saying he is getting a divorce "after the holiday", but there is always another holiday around the corner. I love him and he loves me. Am I being stupid? Can anyone relate? Am I wasting my romantic life? What should I do?

He just told me "after Christmas" as he doesn't want to spoil Christmas for the kids. That's 10 "after Christmas's" now. Has anyone ever been through this? Seeking advice from those who know.