If you're going to keep treating someone who never did anything to you as an enemy or something lower than you, don't be surprised when they will grow a certain dislike for you. You did that all on your own.
If someone is constantly rude to me when I did nothing wrong to them, eventually I will tell them to fuck off. The funny thing is, when these people act like I'm the rude one. So, you're disrespectful to me every time we have any contact and I'm supposed to be respectful to you 24/7 or I'm the bitch? Wouldn't that be nice. I'm not inclined to be nice to someone who isn't. People will be treated accordingly to their behaviour where I am concerned.
I hear what you are saying. I try my best to be nice to everyone but some just don't care for it. I do agree though and if someone is constantly rude or nasty? I'll sure tell them to fuck off.
Yup. There's no need to keep these kind of people around. If I can see them walk away, I'll make sure that happens.
As will I!
Here are two words everyone should be aware in their lives:
plural noun: consequences
1. a result or effect, typically one that is unwelcome or unpleasant.
"abrupt withdrawal of drug treatment can have serious consequences"
1. something done, felt, or thought in response to a situation or event.
"my immediate reaction was one of relief"
Same, if people are constantly rude to me, and I've done nothing to them, it just seems strange they'd hate me. Maybe it's for my opinions, maybe it's because I'm different, and people tend to hate what they don't understand or not willing to understand, and even if they do understand, it doesn't mean they will change their approach to you.
I don't argue, I don't fight, and I really don't debate, I have my reasons and beliefs. I sometimes act cold or distant, or sometimes I appear to be childish, I dunno. All I know is I enjoy most people here, and other ex-sodaheaders that I came to know in the last 7 years.
True - Some people are just rude and full of insulting / demeaning assumptions, then act outraged when you dislike them for it.
It's amazing how some people seem to alienate others and make enemies so easily. And they often seem to be clueless to the ways they push people away.
Exactly. Then they wonder why they are blocked. But playing the victim seems to make them happy.
I've always liked this quote and it fits a lot of people on this site:
I wouldn't be at all surprised, if someone I treated as an enemy disliked me.
Some people are, which either tells me they're even less social-savvy than me, or they're playing the victim.
I've noticed that, too.
When someone is holding on by their fingertips, it's hard to distinguish who will step on them. So everyone voicing contrary opinions, is suspect. Too bad they dont realize that they might be demonizing people who wish to pull them up.
I agree Sofia, I give people a lot of second chances, but eventually I will block them, then they wonder why. I don't let people treat me badly in reality, and sure not going to put up with it here on an opinion site.
Thanks my friend for saying it like it is. Some people just aren't happy unless they are causing trouble for others, and that's what they are trying to do to you....don't let that happen. It's best just to ignore the bullies. You're right, threatening a person is against the Amirite rules, and anyone doing so should be deactivated ASAP. Sometimes nutcases carry through with threats.
What have I... Wait, that's self-centered thinking... What haven't I done to you people lately?
Loool xD The post isn't about you, Zonkey :D I don't consider you disrespectful.
Some people don't learn, until its too late.
They know who's fault it is, their feeble mind won't allow them to blame their self.