Google Image Result for http://img.picturequotes.com/2/19/18994/first-mend-yourself-and-then-mend-others-quote-1.jpgimages.google.comWords to those wanting to mend fences need to mend themselves first. Admit that you were wrong, change your ways, apologize, let bygones be bygones, then only then, will a fence be mended. What are your thoughts?

...I've mended many fences, admitted that I was wrong...when I was wrong and even when I wasn't wrong. I've given people many chances, even that didn't work. Some fences just can't be mended, especially when the same things that caused a broken fence are still going on. Just my humble opinion, of course.

JUST TO CLARIFY, THIS POST IS NOT MEANT FOR ANYONE IN PARTICULAR, NOR DO I WANT ANYONE TO APOLOGIZE TO ME. IT'S A GENERAL QUESTION, SO NO ONE SHOULD TAKE IT PERSONAL. IF AN APOLOGY IS CALLED FOR, THEN THAT IS UP TO EACH INDIVIDUAL.