I agree, words hurt!
Axens peek lowda dan woods ah tink..
Yup. That's why the word sometimes was used.
YUP!!! Tumtimes yu peel lika nut, tumtimes yu doan!!
Unfortunately words can leave scars that that sometimes never heal, especially for people that constantly have to go through it from others.
Just 10 seconds of thinking "should I say that" is better than the lifetime of someone always thinking the worst about them self.