I don't want to say I agree or disagree but I think you have a really sensitive sexual partner if she is orgasming from all that - not every woman is the same.
Honestly I think most women wouldn't orgasm from sucking on their boobs/neck - clit I agree with (mostly) though. And pretty much everything else you listed is person specific as well...
How do you even know what the average woman is? Did you have sex with thousands of women? Even if you had over a dozen of sex partners and you could make them all come easily says nothing about the average woman. You might just were lucky to only get together with women that can. Plenty of women can't even orgasm by themselves
It's a lack of communication and willingness to learn. You can't know how she is feeling if she doesn't tell you, and harder if you partake in a culture where women 'fake it' for you or lack the experience to tell you what to work on to be better.
If you do something and people either have bad taste when reviewing, or are nice in their review to spare your feelings or because you do better than "terrible" and they usually get the latter, it's difficult to re-learn.
If you've always cooked your steak well-done in the oven, and someone says "That's wrong, put it on the stove and cook it until there's just a little pink in the middle", of course you'll say it's hard.
That it's about it being difficult to learn by experience, instead you need someone to 'teach' you and there is often a cultural expectation to be ashamed of not already knowing or of pretending to know.
It's not the mechanics of it that are complicated, of "Rubbing it until she orgasms", but some men going into it as "Stick my penis in her and move it how I think she wants it based on porn and talking to guys about it"
Except you have to try. You have to want to give your partner an orgasm to even think of trying these things. That's where the "15 year olds passing around advice" breaks down. They don't care.
Everyone is different and has different pleasure points, but the way you've described hitting the g-spot is spot on for every woman I've ever spoken to about it.
Tell me how it makes sense that you, a man (I assume), understand the secrets to female orgasm 100x better than the people who actually have vaginas. We (women) have all the time in the world to experiment with our own bodies. You don't think we would have figured out the universal krabby patty secret formula on our own?
How has something so easy & natural become so problematic?
Firstly girls should never let a penis anywhere near them until they’ve learnt to reach orgasm. Most of us discover this early in life, but there seems to be many girls that have missed the (little man in the) boat.
Masturbating is absolutely natural, & should be straightforward, satisfying, & guilt free. I can only assume that these girls that can’t reach an orgasm this way have major hangups, or guilty feelings from their early childhood.
Firstly, the clitoris is the key: forget your vagina, penises, guilty feelings etc., & concentrate on this sensitive, but fickle, little structure. Vibrators work well in giving you your first orgasm, & most girls’ first experience with one is actually a body massager rather than an actual vibrator. The mains powered ones are the most effective!!
If you’d rather involve a partner, that’s fine, but if it’s a boy, keep his penis out of sight: in this instance, it’s his tongue you need! Make sure he shaves thoroughly, as rough stubble will make you sore as hell.
All he has to do is follow your guidance to the letter as to what turns you on, & you can easily control his position & pace by holding his head (or ears!) as he moves up between your labia to the clitoris, encircles it, (avoiding direct contact with the glans initially) & back down again. He must keep a steady rhythm (you control that) & you will reach a point where it will either make you feel as if you need to pee, or your clitoris almost hurts to continue. Keep going, you’re almost there: if you can’t bear him to keep moving, get him to simply press his tongue against your clitoris & press gently & rhythmically until your contractions begin. The first orgasm is always powerful, & be prepared to scream, cry out, swear, whatever. Don’t be embarrassed or shy about it: celebrate it.
Our clitoris is the only organ in the human body that has no other purpose than to give us pleasure. There are few advantages of being female, but the ability to have orgasms that are more pleasurable than those enjoyed by males is one of them &, unlike males, we are able to enjoy several in a row without (much) pause.
It makes no sense to squander that advantage!
I would fake it within 2 minutes of this godawful sucking you're describing. All women are different and what works today for one woman, might not work for her tomorrow. There's actually this exact situation in the TV series "sex education" where this one guy fingers a woman and talks to his friend about how she came and he must be a natural talent and it was just so perfect and she just loved it so much, and simultaneously, the girl talks to her friend about how awful it was and how she didn't even want to try agai because she just loathed the experience. Lol. Men can be so incredibly oblivious, and I think for survival we fake it often, as us faking can potentially arouse the man further and increase our chance of impregnation. It's unfortunate though. Bad habit of many women. But climax is a difficult thing for women.
I didn't describe the sucking so I'm not sure where you're getting that. Also you kinda proved my point with the tv reference. The boy fingered the girl poorly and she didn't like it. The girls friend didn't give a speech on "well maybe I would like that fingering technique because we are all soooo wildly different"
OP doesn't realise how often women fake it. And no wonder. Of course a woman is going to fake an orgasm when some overly-confident twat is sucking on her neck and sticking two fingers in her, going every which way possible. Yeah, she going to "come" in about 10 seconds because that is how long it is going to take before she wants it to end.
I don't want to say I agree or disagree but I think you have a really sensitive sexual partner if she is orgasming from all that - not every woman is the same.
Honestly I think most women wouldn't orgasm from sucking on their boobs/neck - clit I agree with (mostly) though. And pretty much everything else you listed is person specific as well...
In my experience these things work on the average woman. When giving an opinion on things like this it is best to use the average.
How do you even know what the average woman is? Did you have sex with thousands of women? Even if you had over a dozen of sex partners and you could make them all come easily says nothing about the average woman. You might just were lucky to only get together with women that can. Plenty of women can't even orgasm by themselves
My logic is that since I'm an average male I attract average females.
I agree, but in my average all of these things won't make a woman orgasm - maybe a couple of them per woman at most...
But I've been with/know of many women where basically none of this would make them orgasm...
I'm a woman who has sex with women. You're wrong.
Is this satire?
No
Guys we found the virgin
🤓
No, it's not a code. Nonetheless, you have not cracked it.
And you have every right to that opinion.
I may have a touch more sexual experience as a woman, though.
Sorry but in my opinion it's just a matter of stimulating clusters of nerve endings. It is literally a code of do x to achieve y.
At the NECK??
Yes, easily.
You are telling me you have made more than one women orgasm from sucking her neck.
Yes, it is not difficult.
You've been lied to.
And you're entitled to that opinion!
Whatevs, dude.
It's a lack of communication and willingness to learn. You can't know how she is feeling if she doesn't tell you, and harder if you partake in a culture where women 'fake it' for you or lack the experience to tell you what to work on to be better.
If you do something and people either have bad taste when reviewing, or are nice in their review to spare your feelings or because you do better than "terrible" and they usually get the latter, it's difficult to re-learn.
If you've always cooked your steak well-done in the oven, and someone says "That's wrong, put it on the stove and cook it until there's just a little pink in the middle", of course you'll say it's hard.
Not sure what your point is. Can you be more clear?
That it's about it being difficult to learn by experience, instead you need someone to 'teach' you and there is often a cultural expectation to be ashamed of not already knowing or of pretending to know.
It's not the mechanics of it that are complicated, of "Rubbing it until she orgasms", but some men going into it as "Stick my penis in her and move it how I think she wants it based on porn and talking to guys about it"
This reads like the advice your friends pass around when you are like 15, that you probably know better then to even try.
Except you have to try. You have to want to give your partner an orgasm to even think of trying these things. That's where the "15 year olds passing around advice" breaks down. They don't care.
Gotta agree with you. It's not that difficult
You should start a stud school, you could teach other middle schoolers how to master the big O.
It's honestly sad that these super basic things are looked at like I'm trying to brag about my "skills" when I give the most brain dead methods.
"I trained myself to be able to go forever and now I can't finish at all 50% of the time."
You can't even get yourself there half the time...
It is a problem I'm struggling with to solve.
Has your partner tried sucking on your neck?
I hear it is as easy as stimulating a nerve cluster, just press x to get y.
Yes
Do you see what I'm getting at? Maybe women not being able to cum even when stimulated is similar to you not being able to cum when being stimulated?
You don't understand. When my partner does the x the y is achieved. My partner doesn't always do the x to begin with.
Why wouldnt you just ask for x? I don't know how your partner couldn't stimulate your nerve clusters, you have so many areas.
Everyone is different and has different pleasure points, but the way you've described hitting the g-spot is spot on for every woman I've ever spoken to about it.
Makes it easy to find and stimulate doesn't it?
Wish I was a stud like you 😍
If the bare minimum makes me a stud then things are worse than I hoped.
Imagine people do not care about others sexuality🤷🏼♂️
Super easy to do
Where are all the women to confirm you orgasm from neck sucking?
Just my opinion but ask around and you'll find them.
It's "just your opinion" that women can have an orgasm via neck sucking? That's… not how any of this works you virgin
But they can! Just try it!
ok, so go practice on your blow up doll and have fun.
I don't know what this means.
Tell me how it makes sense that you, a man (I assume), understand the secrets to female orgasm 100x better than the people who actually have vaginas. We (women) have all the time in the world to experiment with our own bodies. You don't think we would have figured out the universal krabby patty secret formula on our own?
How has something so easy & natural become so problematic?
Firstly girls should never let a penis anywhere near them until they’ve learnt to reach orgasm. Most of us discover this early in life, but there seems to be many girls that have missed the (little man in the) boat.
Masturbating is absolutely natural, & should be straightforward, satisfying, & guilt free. I can only assume that these girls that can’t reach an orgasm this way have major hangups, or guilty feelings from their early childhood.
Firstly, the clitoris is the key: forget your vagina, penises, guilty feelings etc., & concentrate on this sensitive, but fickle, little structure. Vibrators work well in giving you your first orgasm, & most girls’ first experience with one is actually a body massager rather than an actual vibrator. The mains powered ones are the most effective!!
If you’d rather involve a partner, that’s fine, but if it’s a boy, keep his penis out of sight: in this instance, it’s his tongue you need! Make sure he shaves thoroughly, as rough stubble will make you sore as hell.
All he has to do is follow your guidance to the letter as to what turns you on, & you can easily control his position & pace by holding his head (or ears!) as he moves up between your labia to the clitoris, encircles it, (avoiding direct contact with the glans initially) & back down again. He must keep a steady rhythm (you control that) & you will reach a point where it will either make you feel as if you need to pee, or your clitoris almost hurts to continue. Keep going, you’re almost there: if you can’t bear him to keep moving, get him to simply press his tongue against your clitoris & press gently & rhythmically until your contractions begin. The first orgasm is always powerful, & be prepared to scream, cry out, swear, whatever. Don’t be embarrassed or shy about it: celebrate it.
Our clitoris is the only organ in the human body that has no other purpose than to give us pleasure. There are few advantages of being female, but the ability to have orgasms that are more pleasurable than those enjoyed by males is one of them &, unlike males, we are able to enjoy several in a row without (much) pause.
It makes no sense to squander that advantage!
I would fake it within 2 minutes of this godawful sucking you're describing. All women are different and what works today for one woman, might not work for her tomorrow. There's actually this exact situation in the TV series "sex education" where this one guy fingers a woman and talks to his friend about how she came and he must be a natural talent and it was just so perfect and she just loved it so much, and simultaneously, the girl talks to her friend about how awful it was and how she didn't even want to try agai because she just loathed the experience. Lol. Men can be so incredibly oblivious, and I think for survival we fake it often, as us faking can potentially arouse the man further and increase our chance of impregnation. It's unfortunate though. Bad habit of many women. But climax is a difficult thing for women.
I didn't describe the sucking so I'm not sure where you're getting that. Also you kinda proved my point with the tv reference. The boy fingered the girl poorly and she didn't like it. The girls friend didn't give a speech on "well maybe I would like that fingering technique because we are all soooo wildly different"
OP doesn't realise how often women fake it. And no wonder. Of course a woman is going to fake an orgasm when some overly-confident twat is sucking on her neck and sticking two fingers in her, going every which way possible. Yeah, she going to "come" in about 10 seconds because that is how long it is going to take before she wants it to end.
If you know what works and do it, there's no faking. It's not confidence but competence.