How am I supposed to handle this on my own? I'm 25, should be more than old enough to handle my own life, but I'm such an immature, sheltered, timid, lethargic person. Whether I should have still needed her to get by at this age or not, the fact is I did, and now she's gone. I don't understand what I'm supposed to do now. 25, no job, no house, no driver's license, no friends, living out of my gracious uncle's guest room until I finally finish school and get a job, but I'm so unreliable god knows how I'll ever hold one down. Or even get one without any connections. How can I proceed? More +18What is the dimension of your God. When I speak with friends about religion or God , I am most of the time struck by their conception of God. It doesn't matter for some but for some others God is often considered worse than any human being, a tyran , a despot, a warder, or the worst of torturers. On the contrary some look at him as a benevolent spirit, an easy- going father, a policy insurance against the fire of hell,a fireman or a last ressort. You, what is the dimension God, in your life? amirite?