+117 When you think about it, the phrase "don't lose your temper" doesn't really make sense. The correct phrase should in fact be (if you want someone to remain calm) "don't find your temper," amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Or "don't lose control of your temper."

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Temper is derived from the word 'temperate,' meaning 'calm.'

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Eng.Geek): thanks!! I knew that word but never put 2 & 2 together. I was thinking more like number 1, the "temper" is something to keep tame, to keep a tight rein on.

by Anonymous 12 years ago