-163 People need to calm the fuck down about how it's annoying when people say they love each other after only dating for a few days. We need more love in this world anyway, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I freaking love you.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Tell me that wasn't sarcasm D:

by Anonymous 14 years ago

It's not (:

by Anonymous 14 years ago

:D Yaaaaaay!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

There are different types of love. We don't need more puppy dog love between immature kids who don't realize that true love is about the other person and not how they make you feel.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Like.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You're right, there are different types of love. There's teen love and adult love. Neither is lesser than the other, they're just different. So please, don't say that teens aren't in "true love", because they probably are. In true TEEN love. Besides, love can't be defined.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You call it teen love, I call it infatuation with selfish underpinnings.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Do me a favor and explain to me how teens saying they're in love is hurting you, please, I would honestly like to know.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

It's not hurting me, they're only hurting themselves. But it's okay, they'll learn the hard way when they grow up and get married to someone they think they love and then end up getting divorced a year later because they found out they were wrong.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

So if you've never had a relationship and then got married, that would totally work out, huh? Because that's what you're saying.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Thanks for putting words in my mouth, but that's not what I said at all. I just think kids need to stop thinking that they know what true love is just because they're in grade 9 and have been dating someone for a whole 3 months.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I'm sure even 3 months has been more successful than a ton of adult relationships. How would YOU know how a teenager is feeling? How do you know if it's fake? Times DO change and people DO change; adults need to keep out of our business because first of all:we don't give a fuck. And second:there's nothing anyone can do to change our minds.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

No, they're saying that teens have a tendency to blow everything out of proportion, like if they've been in a relationship for two weeks then they're "so in love" and they'll "be together FOREVER" and then when they break up a while later it's "the end of the world" and they'll "never love anyone else that much" and it's devastating, and then they get over it after a month or so, and repeat the cycle until they learn not to expect their relationships to last forever and be "true love" unless there's actually some evidence for that. Nobody's got anything against teens having relationships, it's just that if you're going to get into relationships when you're young, you're just setting yourself up for disappointment if you expect to be together forever, and think that you really, really love somebody when you've only been with them a few weeks and don't even know that much about them yet. Teen relationships are all good so long as you don't take them too seriously.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I do have to admit, you make a fair point. To each their own, I suppose.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Love can be defined. http://m.youtube.com/watch?desktop_uri=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.youtube.com%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DvCFsQQgkDpA&v=vCFsQQgkDpA&gl=US

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well, depending on the law in China only allowing one child per family due to overpopulation, I think they have enough love for all of us! XD Just kidding, no desire to be racist. But, as ;ong as they dedicate at LEAST 6 months to eachother, then it's all fine for me. :D

by Anonymous 14 years ago

There are different types of love. Most young teens are just caught up in an infatuation and don't actually love their boy/girlfriend so much as they do the attention they're receiving from someone of the opposite sex. But I think that people can love each other after a short time, especially if they've known each other for a while. There's a difference between loving and being in love. We show love for our friends, and if your best friend becomes your boy/girlfriend, why should you be restricted from saying you love them even after a few days of you being together? I think people do need to calm down about it though. If someone wants to go off & say they love someone else after barely getting to know them, they'll either realize how silly and childish they were, or it might develop into something. A couple's relationship isn't anyone's business but the couple's and we shouldn't be criticizing them, even if we don't necessarily agree with the way they're handling their relationship...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree. My parents were just friends, then one day they just got engaged, they never even dated.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

They THINK they love eachother but in most cases, they dont. Some people I know have a new boyfriend every week. Thats not love, for sure.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

@1172288 (Idling_Rocket_Ship): so you have to freak out about it? theres no denying its fucking retarded for them to fall in love in a day, the post is about telling them how stupid it is. live and let live, theyll realize some day

by Anonymous 13 years ago

How was that freaking out about it? I was just saying what i think. And when i disagree with this post i mean people shouldnt say "i love you" when they dont mean it. Not that people shouldnt be 'calm' about it. But i agree with you. You cant TELL them what to do.And i dont tell people how stupid it is. I just think it lol.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Love is love. There are no different types of love. You can HAVE love for someone, anyone, the same way you have love for your parents, your animals, companions. However, the problem with teens nowadays is that they seem to "fall IN" love too quickly.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Most of us teenagers do not understand the difference between love and infatuation.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

no ones denying that...... the post is about everyone freaking out and telling them how stupid it is. live and let live, theyll come to realize it someday.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And then when they're alone and pregnant because they were soooo in love they just had to have sex they're like "I can't believe myself". I think you definitely can be in love when you're a teenager, but people just rush into stuff so FAST that they make mistakes and they wish they'd never even gotten into it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Not all teenagers are stupid enough to have unprotected sex just because they're "in love" and what not, and then wonder why they got pregnant.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think you need experience and maturity to understand what its like to be in love with someone, and those are things that not many teenagers possess. Most of what people consider love is really just lust or puppy-love, and they'll discover later on that the "love" you feel in highschool is on a very different level than the love you'll feel after you've had more experience in the world.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

First off, I just want to say that my parents first started dating when they were 16 and 17, now they've been married for twenty years, so it does happen; not all the time, but yes sometimes it does. I don't feel like we should be lumping everyone into one group. I definitely know teenagers that jump into it right away and say they're getting married, but I do also know married adults that are doing just as wrong as the teenagers. I also know teenage couples that do absolutely everything for each other and I believe they're mature enough to know they love the other person, especially after dating a few years, and who's to say that teenagers can't love? Like I said, it's unfair to lump everyone together. Adults can be just as bad as jumping into relationships too fast as teenagers, and teenagers can be just as dedicated and in love as adults.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

its dumb how everyone keeps leaving comments saying the content of the post but without the people freaking out about it part. its annoying when people love each other in a few days, we do need more love in the world, so the only thing they could possibly be no waying to is people needing to calm the fuck down about it, and if you are so concerned with other people love lifes and really think you dont need to calm down about it then you are no more mature than the teenagers you talk shit about

by Anonymous 13 years ago