Uhhhh, why the heck not?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why not? It doesn't hurt anyone else, so who cares?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I don't know if I would be involved in a friends with benefits situation, but I don't see the problem. If both people make it clear to each other that there are no feelings, then I don't see the problem in getting off with someone you trust when you don't feel up for a relationship. And it's safer than doing it with a new person every week. The only problem is the possibility of things getting complicated/feelings developing later on. Which is why I'm not sure I'd be up for fwb.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Personally, I probably wouldn't mind it. If it's about other people, who gives a fuck. It's not my business.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

someone always gets too attached... but whatever floats your boat

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I feel like that's all you need when you're younger (18, maybe younger, to somewhere in the 20s?) because relationships are just too stressful & complicated when you don't even know who you are just yet

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Except the younger you are, the less likely that you will be responsible enough to use protection, so things might get ugly.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yea, both of those statements make sense but I also think it proves my point a little bit, too.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

oh gotcha xp hah thanks then!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

at first i thought you were talking about the movie, but i think it would be hard to enjoy the "benefits" of somebody without getting a small amount of romantic feelings

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Perfectly fine. I've had a few relationships like that and it turned out fine. But you have to be really open to communicate what the boundaries are so you can avoid drama.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I've had relationships like that, and they're totally fun as long as you don't think of the person romantically. It's easier than people think to be physically attracted to someone and not develop feelings.

by Anonymous 11 years ago