+432 Guys: why is it so difficult for you to admit any feelings for someone of the opposite sex, beyond, "Oh, she's hot"? It frustrates us girls to no end, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

because society puts too much pressure like you ms.can't-make-a-move

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I have made my move, I came right out and told him.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

it frustrates us to no end too. We don't have difficulty on purpose

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Which gender is this question directed to

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Comment if you're a guy, yeah or no if you are a girl. Should have said before.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

See, posts like this bug me. You just happen to assume every guy is like that. I have no problem telling a girl she's beautiful, or that i miss her, or want to be with her. Or even an i love you, as long as i do. You just need to find the right person.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

y

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agree entirely

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i can understand that yeah it would be difficult, but if a guy asked me to homecoming or out for a date, if he seemed nice i'd probobly say yes and if i said no i would never make fun of him :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm always afraid that what i say will be interpretted wrongly. And somehow, a "thats what she said" would be pulled out of it. For me, its an effort to not sound perverted.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because guys aren't outwardly emotional. If you like us why dont you tell us either?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I cant have sex with a personality and I can’t put my penis in your college degree, and I can’t shove my fist in your childhood dreams, so why you sharing all this information with me?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Show me your genitals, your genitals, your genitaliaaaaaaa

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because instead of you girls who stand there and *wait for us to make a move*, we are scared shitless

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Maybe because everything society tells us about being the perfect boyfriend never involves being open. It involves being stupid. So blame society for how a lot of guys (NEVER FREAKING ALL) act towards you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sounds like you're hanging around the wrong type of guys. I'm more of the sensitive type, I guess.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sometimes it's one of two things; first, it might be the fear of rejection. No guy wants to be shut down right after saying what he feels. Second, it might be that the girl in question is taken/more important to him than just "Hey, I really like you." It's more complicated than you think.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because "Beautiful" is just too many syllables.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

because 99% of guys are afraid of rejection. it's terrible when you tell a girl how amazing she is and all, and she just says thanks. we also don't want to come across as creepy or weird. and it's hard to tell sometimes when an appropriate time to say all of that stuff presents itself

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but i do know that this is true for every guy, we will all think about how we want you to know how beautiful, amazing , etc you are for a while, but then we rarely end up saying what we want to

by Anonymous 13 years ago

In my opinion the reason why most of us guys aren't more open is because 1) rejection is scary as hell 2) guys don't really open up very easily because every guy that does is called a pussy or gay and 3) it's really weird for us to talk about feelings when every guy has to be the macho man where girls are just hot not beautiful.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Demonturky):totally agree bro

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Or maybe the guy does in fact JUST think a chick is hot...and not feel any emotion towards her. Hence not expressing more emotion or being more verbal about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree with most of y'all, society puts this mindset on men that were supposed to say what we want. Not what we feel, or how much you mean to us. Media nomaly shows us being idiotic, almost brain dead husbands/boyfriends that ate somewhat incapable of stringing the words, I love you in a sentance . But it is quite annoying when I hear ALL guys are like that, if I said all girls care about is how big your wallet and penis is, y'all wouldn't be too happy about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I agree with most of y'all, society puts this mindset on men that were supposed to say what we want. Not what we feel, or how much you mean to us. Media nomaly shows us being idiotic, almost brain dead husbands/boyfriends that ate somewhat incapable of stringing the words, I love you in a sentance . But it is quite annoying when I hear ALL guys are like that, if I said all girls care about is how big your wallet and penis is, y'all wouldn't be too happy about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Stupid Internet, sorry for the double post.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

"shes so hot" and "i think I love her" are completely different levels. Just because I think a girl is hot doesn't in any way mean I like her.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

On the flip side, why can't we tell guys we like them? I barely tell my friends who I like, let alone the actual person I like...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I told the guy I liked I liked him. Big screw-up on my part. But it's not like I'm against girls telling guys they like them. I just fucked up big time ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago