Sexuality is not a choice between homosexuality and heterosexuality (or bisexuality and asexuality). It's more of a spectrum: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale. There are probably more 1s in the world than 0s, but that's just my guess.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Not everyone holds the same opinion you do. I have gay friends that have admitted that for them it was a choice. I happen to think that unless you are born with both sex organs then it is a choice. Don't bother arguing this point with me because you won't change my mind.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What I was trying to say is that there are gray areas between both extremes, not that it is or isn't a choice. Good luck with your close-mindedness.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sorry to disapoint you there too. Just because I don't share your opinion about this subject doesn't mean I'm closed-minded. How very closed-minded of you to think so though.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You are not close-minded because you disagree with me, you are close-minded because your opinion cannot be changed and you are unwilling to even discuss it. And by the way, nowhere on this page have I said whether or not I think sexuality is a choice.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

On this subject you could argue I'm close-minded because I refuse to be swayed like so many others who have been brow beaten by those who treat you like you must be some kind of horrible person for not changing your mind. (That's not why I don't change my mind, of course, I'm not that shallow) And I've dicussed it quite a lot, actually. And I was rereading your orginial post before your reply here and saw my error also, so my apologies to you for reading that into your post.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thank you for your apology. I called you closed-minded because to me you seemed unwilling to consider that your mind could be changed, which I think is essential in any discussion, but this was me jumping to conclusions and being rude, and for this I am sorry. If only all arguments could end like this :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Beauty can be see in all things both living and non living. So if you're discribing beauty as attractiveness, then yes, it really doesn't matter what sex a person is. Of course that doesn't always mean they have a sexual attraction to the person. Those are two different things altogether.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes, because there's a difference between finding someone attractive and actually being attracted to them.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i dont know if i would call it attracted to the same sex as much as going "o she is pretty" and just having an oppinion. i think attraction is a little deeper than just hinking someone is pretty

by Anonymous 13 years ago

attractive is just a quality. I could point at someone and say, "hey that's person is tan" and someone who lives at the beach could say, "no way they're not tan". "Attractive" works the same way.

by Anonymous 13 years ago