if you dont want them to know about it, its cheating

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I've been trying to think of a way to describe this for ages, but could never come up with this sentence... it's perfect! I always went on about intentions, b/c it's them that make the difference, right? Nicely done.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I guess planning a surprise birthday party for your girlfriend is cheating =[

by Anonymous 13 years ago

There are exceptions of course.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thats dumb. If its not physical its not cheating. Period. I had an ex that would get pissed off if even said hi to another girl, even friends that ive had 5 years b4 i met her, so i wouldnt tell her. Is that cheating? No. This post is dumb and doesnt deserve the yyas it has. Bring on the hate

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No hate from me my friend, I agree with what you have to say.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thank you much. Its girls like this that make me wanna kick a kitten. Ignorance of a preteen girl is what it is

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Kick a kitten anyway, no one will judge you, but the way preteen girls think they know about relationships and stuff really pisses me off.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Agreed. Its annoying as fuck. And the only kitten around here is mine and hes far too cute to kick

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You can't kick a cute kitten, kick something else, I don't really know what is around you, just don't kick a wall, it hurts like fuck

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Last time i kicked a wall it broke.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Last time I kicked a wall I broke my foot, wasn't a good experience, but If you can get away with It then go for It

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I Think im going to go ahead and go with the kick a liter of shaken up root beer in the middle of the street scenario

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It sounds like a plan to me, good luck with that yeah

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i clicked on her profile and she's not a preteen girl... granted, it's barely. she says she's 16... and I'm 28. Ya'll need to take the post in the reference she's making, I think. Say you're at a club with your friends, your gf isn't around. This other girl comes up and starts trying to hit on you, touching you, flirting, buying you drinks, etc. there's no kissing, no sex, but you don't push her away, you don't tell her you have a gf, you don't protest and you don't discourage the girl. I think that's what this poster meant... a lot of people wouldn't call that situation cheating, but it totally is still a betrayal of trust just as bad as cheating where you have sex.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't think that's what the poster means. If it was, I would agree.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That is exactly what I meant! Perhaps I should've used "betraying their trust" instead of "cheating." Thank you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't think that's what this post is implying. Your ex was crazy and saying hi to someone is fine.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Still my point remains. Theres some stuff that can remain secret. Theres also no reason to think that anything less than a kiss is cheating because its not. My best friend is a girl. This post is basically saying that if i dont want my girlfriend to know im hangin with my best friend because she, like most girls would get jealous, its cheating. Thats a fat load of bullshit in my book

by Anonymous 13 years ago

See the thing is though, it's kind of inappropriate to have a girl best friend when you have a girlfriend. It's not cheating but I could understand why she would be upset. What is the point in dating her if you're already super close to another girl?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My best friend is a girl. Its not my fault if the girl im dating at the time gets jealous its hers. She would know what shes getting into before hand. I dont see what the big deal is. Its not like im dating my best friend.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I know, but as you get older if you are in a serious relationship it isn't right to have a girl best friend. Usually nothing good comes out of it

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Who are you to say its not right. Fuck that, im not one for jealousy and if she gonna get jealous over my friends she can gtfo. I dont believe in double standards, and i also dont believe that theres a single thing wrong with having a girl as my best friend. Ive always been closer to girls than i have guys and my best friend alexis has and will be my best friend for years and for the rest of my life. I love her dearly but its not like im in love with her and its not like shes gonna get in the way of my relationships without cause. I Dont see the big deal, and unless u can provide a worthwhile argument, ill take everything u say as a load of shit.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I never said there was a double standard. I was best friends with a guy myself, we were best friends before he dated this girl. At the time I was 17, he was 16 and she was 14. NOTHING was going on between me and him, nor would there ever be anything. I would never have let him cheat, nor am I a cheater. She was jealous of me, no one else who he was friends with. He also didn't have hardly any guy friends so he talked to me, mostly about her actually. Her mother got mad too and broke them up. HER MOTHER. YEAH. Stupid, right? Now when I look back I would have saved myself a lot of time because I had to listen to her and her mother bitch at me and I would have saved myself from having to take a bunch of shit from everyone else if I would have just told him to find a guy friend instead.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

thats ridiculous. Its not your fault she got jealous. Ida told the bitch to fuck off.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I wish I would have!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You shoulda. Nothing should seperate 2 best friends

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No? If I were to go out and kill someone with one of my buddies of the opposite sex, it wouldn't be cheating. It would be Homicide. ,......... bitch.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What if you're planning their surprise party? AHA!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Dangit you got to this before me! Kudos!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think cheating is not the correct word to describe such a thing. There are things that sometimes are better if not shared with your boyfriend or girlfriend (notice I'm not using the word partner as you did). Telling them EVERYTHING you do can somehow create problems, you just have to know the limits. Everything is not necessary if you trust each other and know that neither person in the couple would hurt the other one willingly. But what I'm saying mostly applies for 'real' couples and not some high school flirt. That's only dumb.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Masturbating?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You guys are all so silly. Of course there are some things it's ok to keep secret, or at the least just not tell, your significant other. Surprise birthday parties, etc. To the above anonymous, my ex and I used to talk about masturbation all the time, so that depends on your relationship, I guess, lol... Perhaps it would've made more sense if the poster had put "doing something romantically motivated with someone that you wouldn't do in front of your partner" ? That's what I thought of when I read it, anyways, as I've said.

by Anonymous 13 years ago