-229 You would not wait for marriage to have sex if you truely loved a person, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I can see how it would be hard to resist..but some people have the self control..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

it is once again the religious people holding us back, we should be able to do whatever we want to without them breathing down our necks.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Nobody is saying you should wait until marriage to have sex. I'm saying that the OP is wrong, and that two people who love each other could, if they wanted to, wait until marriage. I did not wait until marriage for sex, but it is possible. Nobody is holding anyone back

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It depends.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well what if i truly love the person instead?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm a Catholic and I agree. Sex is the ultimate sign of love (besides sacrifice) and if two people really love each other, then they should go for it. What I'm somewhat against is people having sex with random people that they barely/don't know.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lets be honest the people who do not agree with this have probably never had sex, and there is nothing wrong with that, but if you have never experienced it before then you have no right to base and opinion off of it, life is a series of moments and that is all we have so we need to seize them Because before you know it you’re 40 with kids, a mortgage, and responsibilities that cause your fun to come second. So before cancer, before children, before 50 hour work weeks, before back and knee problems, before school loans, before you lose your sense of humour... Fight. Fight and fuck and run and smile. Smile because the older you get, the less you will. So yes, “quit being such a goddamn pussy” Because bitching and whining and worry never made anything better.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You are very, very right.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's incredibly amazing that, once again, scrantoncity manages to fix in his views on homosexuality when the post had NOTHING to do with that

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(no+(account)+FU): Hey buddy. Get an account so you can face me without hiding behind the mask of anonymity. I find that incredibly weak minded.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Originality_is_Dead): ?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Even if I had an account, so what if you knew who I was? My point was made, you didn't face it, your picture isn't who you are either, hypocrite

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(no+(account)+FU): Pictures mean nothing. I'm still 'scrantoncity' on every post. You are anonymous, so you could be Anthony for all I know. Having a picture of Gimli means nothing.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You know what? I said no to this, and I have had sex. I know people who aren't religious that are saving themselves for marriage because it's what the feel is morally right. Two people who love each other could, realistically, wait until marriage. It happens all the time.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Are these votes a joke?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't think people understand it. People, vote 'YYA' if you would NOT wait until marriage to have sex. Vote 'No Way' if you WOULD wait until marriage.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think you might be right. And btw even though we normally disagree, I think you're completely right about disgusting "girls:" posts.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well we only 'normally disagree' on certain subjects, but that doesn't mean I dislike you. Also, it's funny how only girls disagree with my statements haha.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

maybe because you're not seeing it from their point of view?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This is exactly why people shouldn't discuss religion because everyone has their own opinion and interperetation of things

by Anonymous 13 years ago

People should discuss religion. But perhaps not here. The internet makes people angry and less open to alternative views. Discuss please (it wil make the world a better place), but not here.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Just because someone is waiting does not mean they're religious, it's just something more religious people do than not. If you do truly love someone it is hard to wait but not being patient and being pushy is just being selfish, not what someone would do to someone they love.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you love someone, then have sex. Hey even if you don't love someone and you're not just being a bastard have sex too. Sex is sex. get over it. Have it if you want. It's natural. As is a lot of things. People have been having sex and whatever before marriage even existed, i see no reason why i should wait for marriage to have it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And you still avoid what I said, there was NO reason to bring up homosexuality whatsoever, and no one knows who the fuck you are is my point, it's no damn different then being anonymous

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And anyways, as people have said, sex is a part of love, even if only for lust. Love and lust are still interwined on some level. But yeah sex and love are impossible not to be interdependent.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but if you truly loved someone to have sex before marriage, wouldnt you love them enough to get married and then have sex? i know sometimes it just happens, but you dont have to have a big wedding that wont happen until like a year after you meet that person.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

very true. I think if people ate going to discuss religion, it should be face to face as opposed to over the Internet where, one, everyone can see the conversation, and two, some things don't come accross correctly and it usually just sparks an argument that could have easily been avoided

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I dont believe in Marriage.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Whoops...I meant to put ( . Y . ) instead of scrantoncity in that last comment

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So why does love have to be proven by submission it into a law binding contract (marriage)? do we really need a piece of paper with squiggly lines on it to prove our existence? I sure hope I'm not the only one who picks up on these things.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Marriage isn't about laws or contracts, it's about making a commitment to stay with this one person for the rest of your life. Even if some don't work out like this, that's what it's for.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

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by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think even if you don't believe in marriage, the principle is if you love someone you can wait as long as you needed, and even if you don't believe marriage is necessary, why not just get married? Easier taxes with no real change in the relationship

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Love isn't love unless both people love each other. If you're lover won't accept the fact that you want to wait, then it's not true love.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If both people are mature and responsible and are protected and they both know each other very well and are in love, it's okay. but if it's two people who just met and are just bored or drunk or something, no.

by Anonymous 13 years ago