Girls are more attracted to guys that aren't judgmental pricks, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

We can't really help what we're attracted to...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Unless you're a virgin yourself it makes you a fucking hypocrite. Even then, it is your fault for buying into the myth that a women's sexuality has anything at all to do with her character, integrity, intelligence, or who she is as a person. Just saying.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I also look for a vagina in a woman. Does that make me a hypocrite? And there's more than one reason to look for a virgin. Really, I have the right to look for whatever I want in a woman without being judged, at my own risk of ever finding one, just like you have the right to sleep with anyone who will consent, at your own risk of alienating guys's who disagree.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No, I'm sorry but that's bull. The post isn't about YOU personally wanting a virgin it's about guys OVERALL being more attracted to virgins. And it's positive. Why? Seriously, fucking why? Say you meet the most beautiful, kind, smart, compassionate, well spoken women you've ever met. Okay? I mean a really great person overall. This post suggests that this girl is less appealing than another girl SOLELY because she had sex before. That's fucking bullshit. And you know what, you're right. People do have preferences. But in certain instances they do deserve to be judged. Say my criteria for finding a man was money. He had to be filthy rich, and I didn't give a shit about who he is as a person. I mean, it wouldn't be my fault that I'm a gold digger, I can't help what I'm attracted to right? Lol no. That's stupid. When you judge people based on superficial things that have nothing to do with who they are as a person, then you're an asshole.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I'm not the spokesperson for all men. No one is. Read between the lines; we can only vote based upon our own preferences. Maybe it's not fair, but life's not fair. I can't change being attracted to virgins anymore than I can my strange attraction to brunettes. Of course, I don't exclusively date brunette virgins. It's just something that neither me nor you can change about me. And no, the most beautiful, kind, smart compassionate, well spoken woman doesn't lose ALL attractiveness based on one quality. There is kind of a difference. Assuming no one is enough of a dick to count rape, you can control losing your virginity. Not everyone has an opportunity to be rich. And gold diggers don't find money an attractive quality in a man. They are solely after the money. And again, this post doesn't say "the only trait about a woman that matters is whether or not she's a virgin", it says we're more attracted to them. Just like if you had to pick between two guys who, for arguments sake, we're completely identical in every way, except one is rich. Who would you go for? What about an ugly guy with a great personality versus a hot one? That has nothing to do with him as a person.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The only reason guys prefer virgins is because all their life the media has told them that virgin girls are somehow more valuable. It's everywhere and it's disgusting. This needs to (and can be) changed. If guys are as widely judged on their sex life, then girls shouldn't be. Simple as that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You think I'm being shallow, and you have the nerve to suggest I take everything I hear at face value? The only reason I don't give a damn about guys sex lives is because I'm straight. Oh, and way to avoid actually responding to any of the points I brought up in my last message. That's how you make a point.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You didn't make any valid points, so I didn't bother.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I made some damn good points, thank you. Do you think a lawyer good go to court and just say "you're honour, these accusations are so dumb I'm not even gonna acknowledge them."? No. If you want to be taken seriously, provide a reason.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Quit crying about me dismissing your "argument." We aren't lawyers and I don't think your points were valid. It's a waste of time. Now retort with something confrontational so you can think you've won and kindly move on with your day.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Oh, I'm not crying. I'm just wondering how you can both think you're intelligent enough to change my mind on an issue you care too much about while simultaneously plugging your ears and going "lalala" while I retort with arguments that actually make sense. But you know what, since you put quotes around the word argument, that proves that you're much smarter than me and that my "logic" can't compete with your sarcasm. And I really don't need to think I've won. You can just keep blaming guys who don't like you (read: all guys) for being judgmental assholes who put too much weight on the value of virginity, and ignore the possibility it could be you as a person. Good day.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Nothing wrong with looking for a good girl. I imagine they are hard to find this decade.

by Anonymous 8 years ago

Not all guys find it more atractive. I personally don't care if a girl has had sex or not as long as it hasn't been with a crazy number of guys

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Or other guys!

by Anonymous 12 years ago

lotta girls go with other girls now a guy can't know . gross right

by Anonymous 8 years ago

Is this true?! Never though it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

that moment when you look at how everyone voted and see that most of the people that voted YYA are girls...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

(~~>--/o~~ swim.): Most likely virgin girls.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

maybe they're lesbians

by Anonymous 12 years ago

it all makes sense now

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Then I'm a sexy beast

by Anonymous 12 years ago

**saxy beast

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's not necessarily that if you've had sex you're less attractive, it's my personal opinion on if it was right. I know plenty of people who've I have liked who've done it, but with their boyfriends a year or 2 in. That's fine. But if you're a full blown slut, it's really not attractive. My opinion.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Had what? You gotta use your words. Or go to school and learn some.

by Anonymous 8 years ago