You are saving sex for marriage, amirite?

The real question is whether you plan on saving it for marriage, or you have no alternative.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

True dat

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Look at all the whores voting No Way

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So if you have sex before marriage, you're a whore? Wow...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think if you wanna wait til marriage, then great, that's your decision, but you should be respected either way. These days I think it's socially acceptable to have sex with your partner before marriage and not be considered a whore.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh yeah, I'm totally a whore... having sex with one person who I've been with for two years. I'm surprised I don't have all those nasty whore diseases.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

HELL NO!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Depends on your definition of sex...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You might PLAN to, but I bet 3/4 of the people who voted yya are going to do it before then

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This post has 69 YYA's xD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

haha thats funny

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sex is important and special. People SHOULD save it for marriage, but if you are not going to, at least KNOW you are in love before you give away such an important part of you. And when I say KNOW you are in love, please for the LOVE OF GOD, at least have been with the person for longer than 6 months. You can be in love before that, but if you really love each other, you can wait.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I am very tempted to add multiple quotation marks to that statement...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well. It'd be cool to, but then again, not really.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This comment sorta has a point, but then again, not really.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well, I meant that it'd be cool to save your virginity for the person that you might be spending the rest of your life with. Then again, it'd suck to wait until your wedding night, and all that anticipation has built up, and you don't know what you're doing and then you're fumbling, and it just blows.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Too late... And I wouldn't anyway. Can you image finding out on your wedding night that your husband/wife sucks in bed?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's like testing a car out before u buy it ;) ..haha

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Because choosing the person you want to spend the rest of your life with could totally be derailed with one night of less than stellar sex?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I probably worded that wrong, didn't I? Well, part of a successful, adult relationship is sex. Good sex. I'm not saying the guy I marry has to be fucking fantastic, but if we aren't into the same things in sex (Like a fetish, etc) then how would we have a good sex life? When you're dating is a good time to show your partner the things you like, to see if they match up, and then marriage comes along. A lot of marriages fall apart when the romance is gone, when the sex is gone, and I don't want that to happen to me. I *always* want to feel that way for my husband.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Now this I can agree with.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So, you want to wed someone because they're good in bed? :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

LMAO thats just an excuse because you cant get any

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Hahaha I was gonna say that! Soooo true(:

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm not, but that's just my choice. And waiting until marriage doesn't mean you can't get any, fucking idiots.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This makes me happy that most of the people are waiting. I just think that if you have sex first, then it just becomes sex. and sex that you could do with anybody, not somebody you love. Its not the same.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Can't get any. Lost all chances long ago. No offers within the last 10 months. But I'm too young to really need to do it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sex, as it is defined, is a purely physical act, much like throwing a ball or punching someone in the face. It is only "special" or "important" if you think it is. Despite what some people think, many people have sex with little or no emotional connection with their partner, and have a lot of fun doing so. I don't see how two people partaking in a consensual, relatively risk free act that harms no one can be seen as immoral. What kind of warped sense of morality would forbid that?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Eh, not really. There's absolutely nothing wrong with premarital sex. I just want to save my virginity for someone who deserves it. After that, well... if all the proper precautionary measures are taken and it's consensual, it shouldn't matter. But, then again, my current plan for life doesn't include relationships at all, so I may die a virgin. Which actually wouldn't bother me that much.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Waiting until a steady relationship of at least a year. There's nothing whoreish about doing the deed before marriage, especially since it's with one person.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's my plan, but it's probably not gonna happen.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's a good goal, but if it doesn't happen, no bad judgment. That was my plan once-upon-a-time when I saw things differently. People change with age/experience/maturity.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Saving it for marriage is pathetic, do it whenever you want as long as you're responsible about it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

@702246 (Anonymous): How is giving an invaluable gift to the person you want to spend the rest of your life with pathetic? Sex is more than a physical act, that's why it such a touchy subject! Losing your virginity is something you can only do once and then you can never get it back and every time you have sex you are giving apart of yourself to that person. If sex wasn't such a big deal why is it the thing that producing all life? We've chipped sex down to a cheap thrill. It's gross.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Id offer

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm just waiting for a long-term relationship, with someone who I'm pretty damn fond of. And I don't want to be drunk or at a party at the time. I don't believe virginity is as big a deal as everyone makes it out to be. And I definitely do not think premarital sex equals a sentence to hell. People need to chill.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Of course I'm not, I'd like to have some experience before I meet my husband. But I guess it's different here than in the U.S.A. I live in the Netherlands and here's less pressure about 'purity' and stuff, here you have sex when you're ready for it, not when you're married.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I guess everyone has their own opinions and choices, other choose not to have premarital sex because of religion, and that's fine by me. it doesn't make you a whore to have sex before marriage, but if you do it like.. ALL the time, then that's something different? ;D

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(Scrantoncity) You can believe in unicorns and mermaids... that doesn't mean THEY exist. But if you believe in an omnipotent being who *poofed* into existence, that means that being exists?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And sex isn't about pleasure or love. It's about making sure your genes are passed along. Humans just over-fucking-analyze EVERYTHING.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I didn't wait until marriage. I had sex with my best friend and my boyfriend. I feel like he was the right person for me, regardless of if we get married or not. He's a great person and he treats me AND my sisters well. My mom is going through tough times financially and he'll give us money for food for the week when we need it. If we eventually break up, I won't regret losing my virginity to him. On that note, wait until you're ready. If you're ready before marriage and you're with someone you love, then go for it. Marriages don't always last, anyway. If you feel you're with someone you won't regret losing your virginity to (and you're dating...) then who is anyone to judge? If you're saving yourself for marriage, not everyone who has had sex thinks you can't get any. In fact, I know a lot of people who are jealous of you because their relationship failed. If you made a promise to yourself, there is nothing wrong with keeping it. :3

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Saving sex for marriage= ugly person's excuse

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't think teenagers having sex is right, but if you're in your 20's and have been dating for a while I think it would be ok.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Most of the people that voted YYA are probably 12 year olds that think sex is gross. When I was a pre-teen, I always said I was going to save sex for marriage. But as I got older, I realised that was never going to happen.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

The same realization comes upon all of us; the real question is whether you can resist temptation. You succumbed. I'm still trying to stay strong.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Undecided...is there an undecided button?

by Anonymous 13 years ago