girls: at some point in your life you thought you liked girls, amirite?

I did but after experiencing things with girls, I found out what I really liked..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I was a little worried about that because in Snorg Tees advertisements I always end up staring at the women's breasts. But considering their bizarre facial expressions and general lack of clothing, it's kinda the safest place to look.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yes, and I was right :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Same here :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

yeah, how do i find out if i do or not? i have a crush on a girl and a guy and i dunno what to do :/ does this mean im bisexual?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

If you want you can talk to me about it. I can try to help you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

seriously? because i really have no idea :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah seriously.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

okay so what should i do? cos theres this guy i really like and i have liked him for ages, but he doesnt like me. but then, like last month i started to realise that i was feeling things for one of my close friends (a girl) but she definitely isnt les or bi cos shes catholic. i cant decide and i think i like them both, but i cant come out and say it. what should i do?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Alright. First tell me your age. Then do you want to know about whether you're bi or straight or what you should do?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

im 15 and i really want to know, im so confused right now

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This phase happens to many girls but most of them get over it quickly or remain discrete about it. Well, when a girl goes through this phase if she does, it's usually to a girl that she's familiar and close to. This might be a best friend, a neighbour or even a cousin or any other girl she's kind of trusting to.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

okay, so what did you do? and do you think i should act on it?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Now what you should do. You told me your friend is certainly not lesbian or bisexual, so I would tell you not to get hasty and try becoming more than a friend so soon. I mean it's only been one month since you started feeling that way, so that's not long enough to know if it's only a phase or something genuine. If you tell her about how you feel without yourself being confident or with you being confused, it might get your relationship with that friend unnecessarily complicated. See next comment.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That said, I think that's your case. The reasons that for me show you're only going through a phase is that 1) you're only fifteen and usually a person knows to what sex she's attracted to earlier but bisexuality fully manifests and confirms itself maybe a little later. Of course this is a generalization.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

thing is, i have always thought girls were more attractive than guys, but i always hid it. but now i actually have feelings for someone, its wierd. i have kinda always felt a little different to all of my friends, they always talk about guys they think are fit, but i just dont fit in :(

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh, if you've always thought of girls that way, then its a little different. But for now I would still advise you not to talk to that friend about how you feel already. Wait some more time to see what happens.. either you'll start to miss her a lot and feel even more attracted to her, else it might just fade away. Depending on what happens, tell her or do not.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

thank you very much :) you are actually so helpful. if you dont mind me asking are you a lesbian yourself?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Haha not at all! I'm straight with a very loving boyfriend that I hope I marry.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Just another question. Do you ever get sexually aroused around your friends who are girls? If yes, does it happen a lot and since when?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

oh my bad sorry :L and yeah i do, especially getting changed for pe. wow! but hey, i will just wait till im 16 or something when hopefully i will know :) thank you

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That's alright dear. Just wait a little more and you'll know more by yourself. Just don't rush things, let time get on your side. No one ever really find love at 15, so you're not missing anything out.. You're welcome.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

What do you mean you don't know what to do? You do the same thing as everyone else who has crushes on people. There's no sense worrying about coming up with a label for yourself...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but if i kiss her or tell her i like her she will hate me. all of my friends will abandon me and i will have no one. its just not the same as liking a guy :/

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Guys: at some point in your life you wondered what girls do at sleepovers. amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lol. That's hilarious.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

So the first thing I should tell you is that though not many people talk about it, during your teens but mostly just after puberty (usually 11-15), a lot of people become somehow confused about their sexual orientation. Normally, during this period girls though it happens to guys to start to wonder about the other sex. This sometimes make the girl 'attracted' to another girl. It's a normal psychological response. See the next comment..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

2) I think you said it's the first time you've been attracted to a girl and it was only recent, so I'm not convinced those feelings you have for her is totally clear for you. 3) the fact that you failed to have that guy might somehow contribute to how you feel right now about that girl. See next comment.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I still like girls ;)

by Anonymous 13 years ago