"them" is plural meaning multiple people, the correct grammar is "him or her".

by Anonymous 14 years ago

From http://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/they "The use of they, their, them, and themselves as pronouns of indefinite gender and indefinite number is well established in speech and writing, even in literary and formal contexts. This gives you the option of using the plural pronouns where you think they sound best, and of using the singular pronouns (as he, she, he or she, and their inflected forms) where you think they sound best."

by Anonymous 14 years ago

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by Anonymous 12 years ago

Platonic relationships my foot.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

i made out with my "just friend" last night! i'm telling the internet cause I can't tell anyone else! woooooooohoooooooo.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

it's hard having a sexy best friend that you can't "have"...So I have him in my own way ;D

by Anonymous 12 years ago