+340 People don’t look at your personality first. People judge you automatically by your looks and then try to get to know your personality. But the second they don’t like your looks, they don’t get to know you. That’s how reality is, amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

My friend has a saying that goes something like "Looks draw you in, but only your personality can hook you on." I believe that both looks and personality are important. I don't think that looks are the only things that matter.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(AMurderousCuddlebudy):No, looks are definitely not the most important part, but sadly, that's the usual reason why people want to get to know someone's personality. I like that saying, I'll remember it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Okay, I was just getting the feeling that you were saying that looks are the only things that matter because one must look good to even be evaluated. I didn't realize you were making the post from an objective point of view. My bad.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No worries.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

They may not get to know you right away. If someone likes how you look, they will get to know you faster, and it will take a lot longer to get to know someone when they don't like your looks. Then there are people who are too intimidated to get to know people who look really good, so only get to know the average looking people.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's unrealistic when people say "omg stop judging people for their looks" We all do it from leftover survival techniques from the days we all fought each other with sticks. It's human nature. First impressions are everything. Fucking deal with it. (I'm regularly judged from my less than average looks.)

by Anonymous 11 years ago

This is what I was going to comment. From the beginning of time we see another person and judge then on size, health, beauty... These albeit sometimes very inaccurate, it is an idea that we give ourselves of the person.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's why internet relationships are so cool, people get to know how amazingly sexy you are only //after// they get to know how awesome your personality is.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

i completely agree, except i only have a couple of internet-only friends; im not very pretty (im naturally pretty hairy and my parents wont let me shave or wax) but my friends still like me somehow -_- but dun get the wrong picture im not like a bear, i just have a lot of leg hair and a bit arm (not pit) hair... but yeahh i agree

by Anonymous 11 years ago

That's a really interesting tale, sis.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm almost sure anon is a troll.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Yup, and it really sucks!

by Anonymous 11 years ago

true, for example, i won't go to a club and see an ugly personnand be like dammmmn she looks like she has an awsome personality! no one does that, it's normal.

by Anonymous 11 years ago