-431 Just because im female, and have a girlfriend, does NOT make me gay, amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lesbian/gay = still gay.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That doesnt go with the post. Just saying. I'm not saying I'm a lesbian OR gay. I'm saying Im niether and being with a girl doesnt make me one.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Then what does it make you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Me. I don't fit under any catagory. If she is the only girl I love, then I'm not gay/lesbian.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

That IS the dumbest thing I've heard. You're YOU? You don't wanna be labeled, gay, lesbian, bi or straight? Let me guess, you don't wanna be called female or whatever tf you are.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

im perfectly fine with being called female. But really, if you are attracted to ONLY one person, what does that make you?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

UH, let's get straight to the point, you're either straight, bi, or a lesbian.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i would go with Bi if thats the only girl she's ever liked...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

if you like someone of the same gender that is called being homosexual. it can't be called nothing, everything has some sort of label.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

OMG. straight, bi, gay, lesbian, are NOT defined by how many people you love, it's the gender that you are attracted to! Do people just make this stuff up as they go along or what?! I love one boy, loving the boy makes me straight, loving only him makes me COMMITTED

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Do you mean like a) Me and my "girlfriends" are hanging out this Saturday? or b) I have a "girlfriend" whom I like.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Idiots of this world. Example 1. Yes, we all understand exactly what you mean but if you don't want to accept what we mean, then you're not accepting the definition of the word. I don't care, we don't care if that's the ONLY person you've "loved" so far/as of yet.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

just bcoz you have only liked ONE girl that still makes you lesbian, as you like som1 the same gender as you. yes you are you, but if you dont like boys and you are a girl, you.are.gay.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I see what you're saying, but it should have been worded better. But honestly, if you have a girlfriend, people are going to either call you Bi or Lesibian/Gay. Everything has a label, otherwise it wouldn't exist.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It makes you a boy duhhhh.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

thats just stupid.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

And so is being unable to detect sarcasm :]

by Anonymous 13 years ago

some things are just better left unsaid

by Anonymous 13 years ago

'kay.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

i thought it was funny...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

tehehe that made me chuckle

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not an insult to call you gay. You ARE gay. Get over yourself. /: I love how you think "gay" is an insult. Good luck with not hating yourself your whole life.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

your right :P

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Haha thankk you.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

;) no probs :)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

omgz no waii imma lyk dancer too.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

awesome :) :) wat styles do you do?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

jazz ballet hip hop lyrical (so that I can so modern soon) and I'd like to do tap but I hardly have before and were like poor lol. Instead of clogging up these comments write on my wall haha

by Anonymous 13 years ago

*you're

by Anonymous 13 years ago

thanx anonymous i totally didnt know i spelt it wrong

by Anonymous 13 years ago

actually no. I myself am perfectly fine being called gay. its my girlfriend whose not. This post was for her. and its all because of her stupidass parents who are completly against gay people.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeesh, well that sucks. I hope her parents get a clue. But still, you can't call it straight even if it's only been one person. It's fine to deny things up to a point but she and her parents will have to accept it eventually.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

her parents dont know. they will kick her out and dishone... sorry cant spell, her if they knew.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Lolwut?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

if you're talking about a relationship girlfriend, then yes. not if you're talking about "friend girlfriends" though

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Considering the post in itself, no. (As in, not right.) But, after reading the comments...I'm hesitating a bit. I mean, either way you're attracted to someone of the same gender, even if it is only one person. I don't see why it's so bad to just accept your sexuality as is..

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's not stupid you guys if her girlfriend is the only girl she's attracted to. It makes her (specific person)sexual e.g. if her girlfriend's name is Mary she's Marysexual. However, this post could have definitely been worded better.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

This might just be the stupidest thing I've ever read, haha.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Not if you're transgendered. My friend Lydia is transgendered, she dates girls but sees herself as a straight male. She knows that she's a girl physically, but in her head she feels male. We call her Jace. I understand where you're coming from, OP, I do. But you don't have to be insulted by the term 'gay' either.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

if the op was a transgendered she/he probally wouldnt call themselve a girl considering they are mentally a guy and they belive they are a guy

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow, you just skewered my logic. xD

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ummm...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I think you might be a little confused honey. I have a gf and I'm bisexual. You sure you're not bi either? Or maybe you just like the idea of having a gf because for some reason it's "cool" to have one now.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

no deiffinitly not. I love my girlfriend. more then anything. When i lose her, and i know i will, the stuff on this pos is proving it, i mean it was for her anyways, it will kill me. Me myself, not my girlfriend, I still havent decided what I am just because shes the only person ive been fully attracted to. So i dont know if im gay or bisexual, but my girlfriend is straight, with me being her exception.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

um i guess you could be bi. Does that count?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Depends I guess. Sexually attracted: Yes. Just.. attracted to their personality, but have no intentions of having sex with her, then I guess you could be pansexual. I have the same issue. I'm not attracted to girls at all, sex with girls or even kissing them disgusts me. I've been attracted to some of my friends personalities, but I know that I like men, and only men ( I need me da dick haha )

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thank you. This retarded post made me laugh.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

OP is retarded.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ummm... wow.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Pansexual..(: but yeah this post wasn't worded very good. But after reading some comments I get it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

okay ive seen a ton of the worded wrongly post so ill address it now. Yes, I Know I worded it horribly but I did not have time to fully think of how to say it considering I was doing it during class.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well you don't have to get all defencive(?) I know.. It's fine. I was just saying... So yeah(:

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Well technically you wouldn't HAVE to be gay, you could be bi... Also, having a girlfriend doesn't actually mean you're attracted to her, you could just act like a couple but not have the feelings...

by Anonymous 13 years ago

that would be dog to be in a relationship and fake feelings

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You could be bi

by Anonymous 13 years ago