I haven't tried to hold off from sex. But when my fiance and I don't have sex for about a week, we start getting sexually frustrated and cranky. And then we argue for no reason. Like, over blankets. Seriously. Then we have sex, and we're relaxed, and all is peaceful again. :) I respect you holding off from sex, because that is your choice. I'm just saying that it would be very hard for me.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

I've never been in love, or even had a boyfriend, so feel free to disregard anything I am about to say. I've heard that relationships that don't work as well when the people don't have sex aren't really based around love. True love is supposed to be able to withstand anything, and that should include not having sex. I'm just saying this from hearing Brad Henning, a fairly famous speaker, talk about this kind of stuff.

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Or it means i can get some and you cant...

by Anonymous 15 years ago

Abstinence is a culturally created idea. Sex is natural

by Anonymous 15 years ago

It would if it were a competition. Some people don't find sex a sin they need to be abstinent from, doesn't mean they are weak; just people with different morals.

by Anonymous 13 years ago