+325 Watching porn while in a relationship is NOT cheating, amirite?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Depends. Let's say the guy can have sex with his girlfriend at anytime and he still rather jacks off to porn, then it's cheating. If that makes sense.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If he'd rather jack off, I wouldn't consider it cheating but it is weird and I'd be prettu butt crunched if I was the girlfriend.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

How is that cheating? Maybe the girl is just terrible at sex.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I wouldn't care if my girlfriend fantasized about someone she knew.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's not cheating, but that doesn't make it completely okay.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Why is it not ok?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's definitely not cheating because it's purely fantasy. He is masturbating cause he probably doesn't want to actually cheat by being too horny later on. Some girls pleasure themselves to porn too. If my girlfriend pleasured herself to someone else she knew in person it would probably mean she could end up liking them. No one ends up falling for a pornstar....I hope.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I only count it as cheating if they're actually in sexual contact whether that be sexting or sex. But porn? I'm not saying it's completely okay but it's hardly cheating.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

This is only the 100000th post like this that's been homepaged recently

by Anonymous 12 years ago

That's hardly my fault.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

lets get this straight: porn = NOT cheating having sex with someone else in real life = IS cheating *unless you still disagree and feel like you might be cheated on by your boyfriend/girlfriends hand

by Anonymous 12 years ago

There are other ways to cheat besides having sex, but porn is not one of them.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

The only reason I watch porn is because masturbating without it takes too long

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No one is going to break me and my right hand apart <3

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Men are never going to stop masturbating. That's just how we are. We could be having all the sex we could ever want and the most we would do is maybe cut down on masturbating. And being that men are commonly turned on by what we see, we're most likely going to look at some form of pornography when we masturbate.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

It's not cheating, but it feels 100000x better when your boyfriend says "I masturbated while thinking about you" rather than "I masturbated watching porn". Just sayin'

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I masturbated while thinking about you.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I said it feels good when your boyfriend says it, not your fuck buddy. <3

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Watching porn in a relationship is good. Think of it this way: A horny man is a dangerous man. A horny man is an unstable man. Give him some porn and a private room and he is no longer horny. He is no longer dangerous. He is no longer unstable. Porn makes the world a safer and more loyal place. Besides, your significant other watching porn and pleasing themselves is better than them going out looking for other people to please them.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I don't think it's cheating because it's not being in a physical relationship with someone else, and the person isn't in love with someone other than their boyfriend/girlfriend. I think the main thing it comes down to is jealousy. Some people are really jealous about it, and others don't really care, and that's why so many people have different opinions on it. But maybe I'm wrong..

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Wow, I've never seen an argument on one post spark this much debate and this many other posts. Good gravy, can we all drop the subject? Nobody is going to change their mind about it, so we're all wasting our time.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No. We came to the comment section to discuss. That's what we're going to do. Changing your mind about it or not, you learn other people's perspectives and we're all bored.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well in my opinion if ur looking for something else than ur gf/bf is cuz ur not satisfied and you are "mentally" cheating on her, just cuz it's not physically doent mean it's not cheating u wanna have fun with porn? U wanna have fun with someone that is not ur bf/gf I think of it that way.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Type like a grown up and I'll take you seriously.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Too bad im not a grown up im a teenager

by Anonymous 12 years ago

ono

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Lol shut up

by Anonymous 12 years ago

ono is a face. Not words. Fucktard.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I wasnt talkin literally well i cant deal with u ppl

by Anonymous 12 years ago

lolwut?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

nothing.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Learn2English.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

huh?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Nothing.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Good.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

People don't watch porn because they're not satisfied and lookig for something else. As you're 16 years old, I take it you don't know this yet.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

As i said its my opinion, i wouldnt like my bf watchin porn if u do, good for u

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Most of the time, people use porn because it's easier to masturbate while using visuals. It's not because they're not satisfied. It's also more convenient for when their significant other isn't around at the time. I'm sure if they were around, they would definitely choose their boyfriend/girlfriend over the porn. If they chose the porn over their significant other, then you could argue the fact that the significant other isn't "good enough" for them and it could become a problem.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well just sext with ur gf

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Well. Who needs porn when they've got eachother?

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Agree

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree with the people who say it isn't cheating because it's fantasy. Although I disagree with the earlier mention of the girlfriend pleasuring herself thinking about a coworker. I think that's wrong, not because the girl is the one doing it, but because that's a person you actually know and see often so something could come of it. Porn is through tv, or internet mostly and you're not around those people so it stays where it is. There's like little to no chance of a relationship forming because of it, where as either person thinking about a co-worker could actually lead to something happening be it actual cheating or a break up so they can be with the other person.

by Anonymous 12 years ago