My best friend is an FTM transsexual... When I moved away to college, we kind of lost touch with each other, but even though I haven't spoken to him in a few years, I still love that kid...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree whole-heartedly, one of my close friends in HS was a male who wanted to have surgery to become a female, but I can see how it could change an intimate, romantic relationship.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You do have the right to be upset though if they lie to you about, especially if it is an intimate relationship.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

If you are lied to about it you haveevery right to feel however you do, that is an extremely severe lie. If they were born one gender then biologically they will always be that gender, no amount of plastic surgery or hormones can change that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I feel like a closed minded dick for agreeing, but I agree.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

it's not close minded, it's biology. no matter how much a man may want to be female, he will never produce estrogen naturally and he will never give birth to a child, that is just how it is. I will still show them the proper respect and refer to them as their desired gender, but biologically they will always be the gender they were born as, if you have an XY chromosome you are a man and if you have an XX chromosome you are a woman and that will never change. and it is just wrong to lie about something like that, unless if you tell them you will never know how they feel about who you really are and that is not love, it is false love built upon a lie. so no it is not wrong to stop loving someone when you find that out because it was truly never them you loved in the first place, it is who they pretended to be that you loved.

by Anonymous 12 years ago