+201 Love isn't a magical feeling that happens when you meet the right person. It is a combination of mutual respect, lust and compassion for each other. You don't wake up and find yourself 'in love' you wake up and find you care about someone else more than yourself. amirite?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

are you in love?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

No

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you don't lust after someone you love. lust is selfish, love is selfless. complete opposites.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Lust is just a sexual desire. That isn't selfish. It's a necessary component of love.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

lust is more than just a sexual desire, it's wanting to fulfill that desire at someone else's cost. it's about not caring what the other person needs as long as yours are met (i.e., the guy who pressures his girlfriend or spends hours looking at porn). sexual attraction is necessary for love, but lust is often what destroys a relationship.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

selfish is a corrupted word, being in love is selfish, why do u love that person? because it makes YOU happy when your around them. being selfish is a good thing, being a self-sacrificing douche who forces themselves to feel bad if they don't give something of high value up for something of lower just makes you unhappy.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

on the contrary, it's quite possible to love some one who doesn't make you happy.

by Anonymous 14 years ago