+170 It sucks when your friends don't understand why you are with someone and keep saying that "He/she is ugly." or that "You can do better!". Thank you for your completely unnecessary opinion but it is my relationship, not yours. amirite?

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I hate it that most people say "don't judge by looks, beauty isn't everything, etc. etc." but the most common compliment for a new lover/spouse is always "Wow they're really beautiful/handsome! Congrats!", and the most common reason //not// to date someone is "But they're not even hot.."

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I feel like people forget that whether or not someone is "hot" is a matter of opinion. You don't need to have a six-pack or big breasts in order to be considered attractive...

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I think it's because we're so used to judging by appearances that we can't put into words how good of a person someone is. I always compliment people on their personalities. Or insult them, depending on whether or not I like them. The most common reason I don't date someone is because they're superficial and vapid. You'd be surprised by how there's such a little amount of people who //aren't// superficial and vapid.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I dated a guy who was consider "ugly" by a lot of people because he had bad acne and a messed up back (it wasn't that bad though). But I loved him nonetheless and thought he was the most beautiful human in the world because I knew what he was like on the inside. I had a stronger love for him then he had for me, because I loved him for him and he "loved" me for my looks. Sometimes I regret my relationship with him but most of the time I don't because I learned so much about true love and puppy love from it.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I'm lucky, my friends realize how rare it is for me to even pay attention to the opposite sex in that way so they usually just stare in awe and assume the guy's actually a magical, mystical unicorn or something and leave me alone about how they look.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

I have a close friend who had a girlfriend who treated him like shit, broke up with him several times and would get back together with him when she couldn't find someone better. Everyone told him he could do better than her. I asked him one day if he loved her and he said yes. That's all that mattered to him and if that's what he wanted I sure as hell wasn't going to deny him it.

by Anonymous 11 years ago