If you don't like gay marriage, don't get one. If you don't like drugs, don't do them. If you don't like pre-marital sex, don't have it. You can do whatever you want with yourself, but don't tell me what I can and can't do with MY life. As long as...

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by Anonymous 14 years ago

while seeing a homosexual couple won't hurt anybody, we should not have to hear profanity whenever we are in public. It is crude, and unnecessary.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

but still a freedom. i don't care if what i say offends someone. if it really ruins your whole day to hear profanity, i suggest you learn to ignore it. the rest of the world doesn't have to shut up because you want to not hear something, if you don't want to hear it cover YOUR ears not OUR mouths.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you are a tool!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I think you're kind of right. Like, I get really anoyed when I'm at a school event and there's a bunch of teenagers standing around shouting out curse words. I also think you can refrain from cursing when there's younger kids around. No reason to teach them that kind of stuff.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You are awesome and pretty much took my thoughts from my brain

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree with most of this except for the part about cursing. You can curse at home or in any private place, but if you are in public and a small kid hears you curse, they will most likely repeat what you said, which would not make the parents very happy.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

then the parents should teach their kids not to say it. i can say anything in the world and it would make at least one parent unhappy that their child heard it, if they don't want their child to say it they should stop them through good parenting and teaching but censorship of free speech is not the way.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Wouldnt it make life a lot easier if you would just use appropriate words? Like it what said above, crap and shit are the same meaning...and so is "fuck" and "intercourse"..so why not just use the nice version of those words in public?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

because the point is i don't have to change anything to make life easier for anyone, if you want things a certain way you'll have to live without being around people who make them the way you don't want, but you can't stop someone from saying something and you never should no matter what it is.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

That is a little bit selfish I agree with the homosexual marriage part and the pre marital sex but drugs are dangerous and it isn't just forcing your ideas on someone like the others are. And the cursing well its just rude and not respected in public but I don't really care if anyone does that.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Do what you want in the privacy of your own home, but BEHAVE in public- we are supposed to be a civilized society, and parents are SUPPOSED to be able to raise their children as WE see fit, not according to YOUR morals. Frankly, I don't care of you're gay OR straight, I don't want to watch...

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I dont think the OP is gonna beligerantly curse in front of children, but sometimes things just slip and we dont realize younguns are afoot. Also, I think they didnt mean for you to watch our 'immoral' actions. Just stop talking shit about people because they are different

by Anonymous 14 years ago

so if a couple who had been together for 50 yhs ksissed on the cheek in the park you would tell them off? and dont tell me its different becuase then you just become a disgusting biggot. deal with it bitch. they can do wat ever the fuk they want.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

so then raise your kids they way you want. there are obstacles like swearing, i dont care if its easy or not, if you dont like it talk to your kids and deal with it because weather you like it or not its not going to stop.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Thank you.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I pretty much agree completely. But I think you should try to tone down the profanity when you're in public (especially in front of kids). I'm not sayin you shouldn't cuss in public, just don't overdue it. Its called bein polite and decent.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You guys seem to think that curse words have some kind of built-in negative powers. They don't. They're just words. Hearing the word "fuck" will not mess up a kid.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

exactly!!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree with most of this. The drug issue is different, because it is addictive, and can harm more than just the person. The fact of life is that children will eventually hear us swear. As to whether or not they do it themselves is NOT up to us.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

THANK YOU for posting this :) It's exactly what I'm thinking.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree 100%

by Anonymous 14 years ago

<3 :D

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I disagree with the drugs portion. Sadly, most drugs, especially "hard" drugs like cocaine and heroine are smuggled in from wartorn areas. All the violence in Mexico? That's all over drugs. Anyone remember Colombia, 1992? Pablo Escobar killed thousands of people to cling to his cocaine cartel, and the young people of America funded his war in Colombia. Do your homegrown stuff, but don't fund the killing of innocents for your cheap high. It's not harmless. Not for you, not for them.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

drug use should be regulated, just like alcohol. you shouldn't be allowed around people or machinery on certain drugs, but if you want to fuck up your body and your life that's none of anyone's business but your own. not even your loved ones should be able to make those decision.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

And yet the impact of you fucking up your body or your life will still have a negative impact on society. When you're too wasted to clean up your dirty syringes it's the public that has to clear the waste or risk becoming infected from contaminated blood. When your mind is so disconnected from reality and your body is shutting down from overuse of alcohol or drugs it's society that has to support you, either having to personally look after you in a home or divert additional taxes to pay for said home. It is true that you may have certain rights in regards to the way you live your life, but then so does everybody else. If you have a right to free speech then another person has the right to be free from hateful or offensive comments. To you the word a word may mean one thing, but to society it may have a completely different and offensive meaning. Actions have repercussions. You should think about this when exercising your rights to freedom.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I'm not on drugs, and if you'd read i said lots of times in the comments drugs should be regulated so that you don't harm others while ruining your own life. society isn't always right, that's why we have things like the holocaust and religion wars and genocides, because everyone is following societies views instead of thinking it through and choosing their own they just lean on the majority. oh and you may have the right to be free, but not to take away others freedom, you could say you have the right to be "free from seeing billboards". you do, but you'll have to spend a lot of time with your eyes closed.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree with all of this but the drugs part. As people have said above... drugs don't just hurt the user. And to everyone else, OP isn't insinuating that you should cuss loudly and scream the worst of four-letter-words out in public, but people don't need to get all pissy about it when you do slip and say something. As long as you're not screaming it at the top of your lungs, then you should be able to curse. They're just words.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

AGREED ONE HUNDRED PERCENT. If you do drugs, and get into a car, you could kill someone. I don't care if you want to love someone who is the same sex, but when you are under the influence of drugs and/or alcohol you might not make the smartest choices, and end up doing something you regret. I have a right to speak out about something that might end up hurting me.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Exactly. :)

by Anonymous 14 years ago

(tododapurplecow):

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i agreed with all of that except drugs in certain situations. it does harm us when ppl r smoking in public from secondhand smoke... gay marriage is acceptable, and the AIDS thing is irrelevant, if u don't have sex with them, it doesnt hurt u!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Agreed.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

This is a bit like a child saying "You're not the boss of me!" Sometimes, in order to live in a civil society, you have to take orders that you don't like. No man is an island. Sure, you can do all of those things, but you run the risk of dying, hurting yourself, or at least living a lonely, isolated life. If you don't want me telling you what to do, then you don't have to listen, right?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

it's true i don't. id rather live an isolated life then one where i have to adhere to bullshit societal rule. i harm no one. the only things that could hurt me are drugs and i make the choice not to do them, but you don't make that choice for me.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

This is the most fascinating strip of comments I've ever seen! :D

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I was about to put that!!! :D

by Anonymous 14 years ago

No. You are not "rite." Fun facts about all of the above: Gay marriage is alot worse than you think to everyone else. Once gay marriage is legalized in a state, they begin teaching "Lesbian intercourse" with detailed graphs. Drugs ruin the lives of that person, and can harm nearby people. Pre-marital sex causes STDs to young people.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you're fucking retarded. gay marriage has NO effect on you. If people want to be happy, fucking let them. is it your problem if i go out and sleep with a bunch of guys? no. so just live YOUR life, not mine.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I notice you give no response as to how that's wrong, and you just call me names. I'm not living your life, I'm saying how these things affect others. If you're not going to at least ACT like you have ANY idea what you're talking about, please do not talk.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree...these are things that people should speak up about, especially for the reasons you posted. But some people (cough cough meezyx0) dont like to listen...they like to do what they want and dont think about other people and how it affects anyone but themselves. I'm not saying we should judge them, but we certainly have a right to talk.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You're the one making up nonsense on the spot. Get your facts straight! Gay marriage isn't going to hurt you at all and the 'lesbian intercourse' thing. What are you talking about I have never heard of that being done.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

...What? They don't teach us STRAIGHT intercourse with detailed graphs. Why would they teach us lesbian? And if they did teach us straight intercourse in detail, how is teaching us lesbian any worse? Marital sex also spreads STDs...And as long as YOU'RE not having sex with anyone with an STD, how will that even effect you?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

The difference is, if you go from one person to the next, you're spreading STDs to all of those people. And I don't get the "lesbian intercourse" thing either, but schools don't always make sense. I've done my research. It's all in black-and-white.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

so you're saying that homosexuals automatically sleep around? or is this about premarital sex? have you never heard of a condom? or testing?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Point to note: no political or societal issue is ever black and white. There is and always will be a grey area. At the very least it would be wise to understand this before commenting on anything else.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

lol i have yet to see detailed straight sex graphs in school, its almost like you think of the worst possible scenario and think it would happen but the likelihood of any of that is just ridiculous.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

ACTUALLY, in 8th grade we had health class which did show us very detailed things about sex, STDs, and other things. So until you know for sure... DON'T SAY SHIT.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

After marital sex can cause STDs too...as long as one partner is infected.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

1. Gay rocks & 2. It's not legalized in enough places.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

haha well I live in Massachusetts(where gay marriage is legal) and I have never.. ever seen detailed diagrams of lesbian sex in school (boys bathroom walls excluded). Or heard of it being taught. If this is a black and white where is your evidence? There must be a link on Google I'm missing cause I'm pretty sure this would be a big deal.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I would like to see your source for schools teaching "lesbian intercourse," but I would also like to ask how that is hurting anyone.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

but what happens when you are drunk/high and do something stupid that does hurt others? or what if you get arrested and get sent to jail, who is paying for that? all the taxpayers. so you are hurting others

by Anonymous 14 years ago

l@208080 (Anonymous): DRUGS SHOULD BE REGULATED LIKE ALCOHAL. certain drugs that cause you to loose control should be done under extreme supervision from a professional and it should cost you a but load to do them. imagine the money the government could make hiring people to regulate the drug industry, and the tax benefits, imagine all the jobs that would become available. once again if someone wants to destroy their own life they should be allowed to, NO ONE should have a say in whether they can or can not.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Why the hell would they teach "lesbian intercourse?" Who is "they" anyway? Gays and lesbians have just as much right to marry as a man and a woman do, it's about being happy and in love.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

"They" reffers to the schools. And they would teach it because people would be outraged that they teach regular marriage, but not gay marriage.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

if they did teach about gay marriage what wud be wrong with that? it seems as if you are implying that gay marriage is wrong and teaching it to children would corrupt them.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

maybe they should be outraged, I mean why should they have to learn things that don't apply to them (aka boy girl stuff) and not have the opportunity to learn the stuff that does apply to them?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

You are a complete idiot, my father has been stationed all over the U.S. and I've had to go to 9 different Middle Schools, none of them ever taught us about "Gay sex" Where the hell do you live? And it's not like the school's going to effing brainwash the teens and kids and "teach" them to be gay! We have our own minds and can make our own choices about who we want to be.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree with this. 100% If i want to have sex before i'm married, that's my risk none of yours. If I want to smoke pot with my boyfriend, that's my lungs, not yours. If I want to tell somebody to fuck off, that's my right not yours. It's just words. And If I had a girlfriend and wanted to get married, that should be our business, not yours.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree...but it can be others business, just so you know. If you want to have pre-marital sex: Think about the consequences. yes, it does effect other people. What happens if you get pregnant? that could effect many lives. The baby, your family, friends... If you want to to drugs: Well, this is pretty obvious. That could effect any random stranger. If you drive high, or smoke-people breathe in that air. So dont be selfish, dont do drugs.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

thats what birthcontroll and condoms are for. just because someone is married doesnt make them a responsible parent or finacially fit either.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

birth control and condoms dont always work, smarty. Theres a higher chance that when you are married, you are a responsible parent and are financially fit. You also have a partner to help you raise the child. Im not saying thats the case 100% of the time-but I think its pretty clear and obvious that pre-marital sex is very discouraged everywhere...theres a reason for that. Many reasons, actually.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

yes, but i also feel there are many reasons for not waiting. i feel that i wouldn't want to spent the rest of my life with someone i hadn't slept with. lots of relationships change after intercourse, i wouldn't want to risk that with a life partner. Thats just me though. birth control and condoms are both around 99.8% effective, if you're smart about it then it is more likely nothing will happen. and if it does there are options. also 85% of teens who choose abstinence before marriage break their vows and studies show they are more likely to not use condoms. I'm not condoning kids fucking, but consenting adults are consenting adults, and can take the risks they choose.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Also... With swearing: im not saying theres something wrong with it...but theres a limit. People should really be more curtious... Lastly, nobody said anything about judging gay marriages. It is your right. So chillll.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

"As long as I'm not harming you what I do is none of your business." Well, not exactly. If you're harming your neighbor, it's my business. If you're harming your children, it's my business. If you're harming an animal, it's my business. If you're harming the environment, it's my business. Other than that, do whatever the fuck you want, amirite?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

how is any of that harming you your children or animals? words cant hurt, you're children will not be scarred for life unless you make a huge deal out of something they say rather than just say its not appropriate for them. by the way if you read, i say drugs should be regulated like alcohol with stricter regulations for harder drugs.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I didn't mean to say that about the whole post. I just disagreed with that single sentence. And I don't see where you say anything about the regulation of alcohol in your post. If it's in the comments, there's just too many for me to go through.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

ya its in the comments, ha sorry i was sorta copy and pasting everything after a while because everyone was going off about the drugs.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

SHOULD BE regulated. But they aren't yet. So, until they're regulated, may we have the right to get upset if the consequences of someone doing drugs is harming innocent people?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

There is nothing wrong with cuss words. its the way we use them. each of those words has a literal meaning. instead of teaching kids to not use them, which will never work, why not teach them to use them PROPERLY.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

People are are so quick to judge but then freak out when someone judges them.. No one is perfect by you asking us not to use cuss words or have sex before marriage or anything the OP said would be like saying don't be yourself.. I'm going to be me.. If you don't like me then don't get all involved in what I do just leave us alone. Because those who mind don't matter and those who matter don't mind- cat in the hat.. People should at least try to find one thing they like about a person and just get along!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Wow. "If you don't like drugs, don't do them"? So we should just let people, teenagers, go and ruin their lives by doing drugs or having sex, so that they can get in car crashes, mess up their brain, possibly get pregnant, and spread STD's? That's not the way to do it. The poster sounds like an ignorant, rebellious teenager who is being a brat about people who love him/her keeping them from doing stupid things. Shut up and grow up.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

im a teenager and right now it sounds like your telling us to shut up and let you do whats best for us. your talk about how drugs are bad does not reach many teenagers. if a drug is illegal and teens are still going after it, telling them its bad isnt going to stop them. most of us dont realize the consequences until we or someone we know and care about suffer it

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Well, yeah. That's why teenagers do it. They don't realize how potentially harmful it is, and they think they should just be able to do whatever the heck they want, regardless of whether or not it's dangerous and life-threatening. Of course some teens are still going to go after drugs, but telling them how harmful drugs are is a wise step in keeping them from doing something so idiotic. I'm also a teenager, by the way, I'm just not the kind that gets sucked into the imbecilic things the poster mentioned.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

actually i think drugs should be regulated like alcohol but with stricter regulations for harder drugs, and i still think age limits should apply, you are your parents child until you are of age and are no longer financially supported by them and until then should respect their wishes, but after that if you want to fuck up your life with drugs that's your choice. stop talking about sex like its some taboo thing that's terrible, sex is natural as water in the ocean. birth control and condoms are your best bet when it comes to sex and if you worry about stds, be smart and get yourself and your partner checked first. by the way i don't do drugs and i don't drink, but that is my choice and no one else's. i do have sex outside of marriage but I'm smart about it, my partner and i both get checked at least every six months . i do swear, it is my right. i will say what i will say, but i don't make it my intention to be heard by you.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I haven't said anything about sex being "some taboo thing that's terrible". I'm saying that pre-marital sex is dangerous ground. There is ALWAYS the chance of getting pregnant, even with condoms and birth control. And unless you are ready to physically, emotionally, and financially handle a baby, you or anyone else shouldn't be having sex before you're married. Also; drugs are dangerous. No two ways about it. They cause many, many deaths each year. I can't keep people from drinking or getting high, but I can discourage it for people I know, in order to keep them safe. I never said you or anyone else couldn't live their life the way they want to. Just that some ways are stupid and reckless, and it's important that they know that.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i agree

by Anonymous 14 years ago

This is, without a doubt the greatest collection of comments I have ever read on here. I am especially interested as to how few people saw BOTH sides to the argument. STD's: A partner should always admit to having one to prevent it...protection and caution should always be present...and after having a new partner, or new partners, you should be tested. Before having sex, ask yourself if you're willing to face certain consequences with this person. If so, then be smart and GET IT ON! Gay Marriage: Who was the person who talked about marriage in lesbian sex being taught in schools? That was the weakest point I read, and it was comedic. Most of us agree that gender is not a big deal and people should do as they wish. Right now I think people are bothered by the PDA factor with those couples...but I really don't blame them. We're going through a dramatic shift as a society, and until we all see that this is OK, they have to be open about themselves and fight!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I am the one who said that. I do not understand it either, but after research, I found it to be true.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Here is a site that tells a little more about how it will slowly seep into schools: http://www.massresistance.org/docs/marriage/effects_of_ssm.html

by Anonymous 14 years ago

not everything you read is true just an FYI

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Continued... Drugs: The biggest split. I can see how people could disagree with this one...it CAN damage the lives of others. Although drugs aren't the smartest thing in the world, people should think and plan BEFORE doing it...your mind loses control, you lose control, and you need to be aware of what happens before you do it. In the privacy of your home with a friend is an ideal plan...heck, even having a sober friend for the day/night to keep an eye out is a good idea. Fuckin Shit: Typical argument for...1st Amendment, BITCH. Typical argument against...think about the CHILDREN!!! Yeah, because of how a large portion of the population feels, don't be the jerk who doesn't have a heart. There are times when the occasional swear in public is understandable, but it's better if you do it around people who are comfortable with that. Stop being selfish, and don't be hated. Think about others.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

That is how drugs SHOULD be handled. That is not how they ARE handled. We need to deal with the reality, and that includes interfering with the lives of people who use drugs irresponsibly.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree with everything except cursing. People probably shouldn't publicly use curse words, just in case little kids are around. Little kids repeat everything, and you don't want them repeating curse words or inappropriate phrases. Other than that, go ahead and life your own life!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

"dont like drugs dont do them" "As long as im not harming you its none of your business". WELL, guess what, IT DOES HARM US. people who are on drugs commit atrocious crimes for no reason, so it is our businsess. Oh, and also, don't forget all the f*cking tax money that is wasted into these people to make them better. SO YES, OTHERS DOING DRUGS IS OUR PROBLEM. WE LIVE IN A SOCIETY, SO OTHERS' PEOPLE'S PROBLEMS ARE ALSO A LITTLE OUR OWN.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

drugs should be strictly regulated, oh and if they state lagalized and taxed drugs, imagine the revanue. oh and i don't think tax money should go to fixing a drug addict either.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

If weed was regulated, it would be harder for young ppl to get. There is no control now with it being illegal. and wtf? they should soooo be HELPING drug addicts with tax money instead of putting them IN JAIL where they will still do drugs-that is fucked up

by Anonymous 14 years ago

if they were legal they wouldnt be in jail, and i dont see how you think they would be harder to get if they were legal.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I am just talking about weed being legal, and it would possibly make it harder to get because the was Cali would do it (if they taxed and regulated pot) you would have to be 21 to purchase it. Prohibition means no control...as for hard drugs, they should NOT be legal, but when someone is busted with them and are addicted they should go through a rehab program

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I'm all for this post. Gay marriage is fine, and I'm all for it. Drugs - hey, all you nay-sayers? here's a reality check for you - not all drug users are crooks, or even go out in public after doing them! CHILLAX! Pre-marital sex - my body, my choice, damnit. And I carry protection. If you're stupid enough to not have it, then it's your own fault for the consequences. Cursing - I have a mouth like a sailor, and I really don't give a shit if you don't like it. Of course, I'm antisocial anyways, so why SHOULD I care?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Drugs- May not be MY problem, but it is your family and friends problem too. Your family can try to stop from doing something that could kill you. Cursing- Do you ever want a job? or friends? or anything besides your drugs and pre-marital sex? Swear all you want when your alone, but in public, SHUT YOUR TRAP. I highly doubt people would thank you for dropping f-bombs by there kids because you stubbed your toe on a curb walking to your car.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

@216815 (tododapurplecow): it doesnt matter if they think its their problem, if someone wants to fuck up their own life let em. just because you swear doesn't mean you do it at work. work life and outside life is different, if you want to keep a job you have to do what you re told at that job. and in public, i don't care if your kid hears, i don't care if they ask you what it means. you may think it will somehow scar them, but it wont and i don't give a damn it you think its rude or not.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I HAVE a job, and I HAVE friends. Try again. Most of them swear like sailors too. And where in my post did I say I did drugs, hmm? Nice how you throw this all on me when I never once said I do all of those said things. Pay attention. Oh nice, I apparently have a car. You shut your trap and stop fucking assuming shit about me.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

& (vvqt): I think it would be interesting to see you guys try to argue with me intellectually. That means capital letters, and using appropriate language. I am saying just as you have your freedom to say and do what you want, (side note: illegal drugs- cops have a say) also gives others the freedom to tell you why you shouldn't. By the way, the car was an example. You could have been walking to a grocery store (or farmers market, or your farm, or wherever you get food which I assume is safe to assume you eat), or just walking, or wheeling, or whatever. If a person is "fucking up there life" you allowed to try and help them. If my (future, i'm not married) husband started doing drugs, you better believe I am going to do whatever I can to help him.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

no one said you couldn't. you can ask someone to stop, but they don't have too, just as someone could tell you to shut up and you don't have too.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Bottom line, if people don't like it, that is their problem. No one is forcing them to be around it. I am sure if you got all the people who were for all of this and all of the people who are against all of this is would be a pretty close call or the people who are for it all would outweigh the others, by far. It's your life, your choice. Deal with it.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

"No one is forcing you to be around it" Let's there is- Swearing at the workplace, and I need the job. I live in a bad neighborhood with drugs, but don't have money to move, or family to move in with. (same with gy neighbors and such.) If those were my situation, I pretty much would be forced. It may be your choice, but it is my choice to speak out against it. Deal with that.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

no one said you couldn't speak out against it, that's what this post is about. speak out as much as you can, everyone has the right to speak their opinion.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

The original poster is your soulmate?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

haha yeah i i meant best friend tho cause she's a girl!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Hahahh good deal.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

If they're just words then why do you have to say then? What you got some kind of attatchment to it? Y'all have said yourself there's other options and since they're just words they don't matter so why don't you just use those and save yourself the hassle?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

they don't matter what matters it the right to free speech. if you say holy cow someone somewhere will be offended. Just because it offends someone no one should have to censor themselves. the person who doesn't like it should take initiative to walk away if it really bothers them that much, but they can not force others to walk away. if i swear I'm not telling you you have to leave you make that choice, but you cant tell me i have to be quiet either. people shouldn't have to adhere themselves to the beliefs of others when it comes to specific freedom's just because some people don't like it. words only hurt if you let them.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Don't fucking tell me people who do drugs don't affect my life. Actually I despise this post.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i didn't say they don't affect you, and if you'd read i said drugs need to be highly regulated and if you wanted to do harder things you would have to be monitored by professionals and not around children or other people, nor operate machinery. if someone wants to fuck up their life it's their choice. but legalizing and controlling it would do away with drug wars and reduce the risk of aids.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i love you..

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree with most of what you say: - anyone who wishes to be married should have the chance - nowadays marriage has lost much of its potency through the loss of religion in general anyway - the same goes for pre-marital sex - much of the point of virginity before marriage was to abide by religion, and religion is becoming less prominent in decision-making in much of the Western world - as for drugs, many people start on them BECAUSE they are taboo - same goes for smoking. Legalizing them as you outlined above would likely decrease the number of lives ruined, although it would be better still if they simply didn't exist (I know this is never going to happen) - finally, cuss words - they go in and out of fashion and change meaning over time. The more people use them, the less impact the have, so there's really not much point making that big a fuss. As with the drugs - people often do it BECAUSE its taboo.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Although I do beleive you have a RIGHT to curse, I don't think it's okay to be spouting curse words near grandmas and 2 year olds. It's just impolite. It's one thing if you just dropped a table on your foot or something, but theres really no need for them in polite conversation with people who may be offended.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

missing the point

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I LOVE THIS FUCKING POST!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Too bad second hand smoke and drunk drivers can kill you also abortion is effecting another live other than your own.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

. . . I don't recall abortion being a part of the OP's post. And too bad you don't realize that not everyone does their habits in public.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i agree with the person who compared this post to a five year old going "you're not the boss of me!!" 1) if your fine with gay marriage, you should be fine with incest. i mean if they all love each other right? 2) drugs DO affect other people. and that idea about using government money to provide and control drugs for addicts is the most disgusting piece of extortionist idealism i've ever seen. "think about the revenue!!!" seriously? think about the opium war in china way back when 3) premarital sex is NOT just about religion. it's about protecting our children, stopping the spread of stds, and stopping the breakdown of the family unit 4) the only reason you complain about cursing is because it doesn't offend you personally. but what if i decided to make racial slurs or curse your mother? will you "just cover your ears" then? are they "just words" now? it's called being considerate. try it.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

my mother would ignore you because she's a big girl

by Anonymous 14 years ago

nonetheless, she'd be offended. as anyone who's ever been the victim of teasing or rumors or any kind of verbal abuse knows, it's never "just words."

by Anonymous 14 years ago

then they need to get a thicker skin. I've been thrown some of the worst 'insults' you can think of, and since I KNEW they weren't true, I didn't bother to listen.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

spoken like a true bully. no matter how much you want to put on a brave face and pretend people's words don't have the power to hurt you, the fact is, they can. and it's not fair for you to demand that the rest of the world grow a "thick skin" so that you don't have to be held responsible for being rude.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

*laughs* I'm a bully, am I? I have never bullied a single person in my life, I've always been the victim. Yet somehow I'm the bully. That's a new concept by me. I got a thicker skin BECAUSE I've always been the victim. In such cases, you have two choices: sit and whine and moan which never gets anything done, or get tougher and just IGNORE IT.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

the fact that you expect everyone to cater to your wants makes you a bully. the fact that you've been bullied before doesn't give you permission to be a bully to others.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

swearing doesnt make you a bully

by Anonymous 14 years ago

No, I don't expect people to cater to me. You're expecting me to cater to you by censoring myself for YOU. Fuck you and the horse you rode in on, hypocrite!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

dude. other way around. MAJORITY of people think swearing is rude, and you expect people to put up with it cuz YOU feel like it. and if you ever get mad at people for being inconsiderate (i.e. cutting in line, being loud in a theatre) then, you my friend, are the hypocrite. with a bully-like attitude.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

*laughs* I still have freedom of speech, whether you or they like it or not. TELLING me to censor myself is attempting to take away that right. I don't really care what people do. if they want to behave like assholes, they will whether I get upset or not. So why should I bother getting worked up over it? you really like pinning shit on other people, don't you?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

we have freedom of speech, if you're really a tool enough to let words hurt you, you deserve it.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

okay, so now i deserve it if someone says something offensive? that "blame the victim" mentality has been behind so many abusive people, just so you know.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

its fucking words. no one is beating you with a stick or forcing you to listen. its not like someone comes to your door just to say fuck.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

whatever. but if you're so righteous that you need everyone else to cover their ears for you, you better not get mad when other people do inconsiderate things to you (i.e. honk at you, cut in line, etc.) happy living.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i dont

by Anonymous 14 years ago

then why do you need cuss words?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i mean, if nothing anyone else does ever bothers you (completely ignoring the fact that you're complaining about people in your post, of course), then you must be one of the most serene people in the world, and serene people generally don't curse.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you're a fucking dumbass

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i'm sorry you feel that way. but if you can't stand inconsiderate people yourself, don't try and force your inconsideration on others and expect them to be okay with it.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i don't remember saying i couldn't stand inconsideration.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

ok, let me rephrase: "if other people's inconsideration irritates you, don't be inconsiderate to others and then expect them to be okay with it" and don't say that other people's inconsideration doesn't bother you at all. you made this post. obviously it does.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

its not others "inconsideration" that bothers me, its people worrying so much about it they set their religion based morals into laws and rules. you can say what you want to me and in an hour ill forget about it and have to re read the whole conversation to reply.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

an aversion to swear words has little to do with religion, but nice try. are you telling me it doesn't bother you when someone shoves you out of the way to get to something first? when someone talks loudly at the movies? when someone eats all the oreos before you get any? i'm talking about things like that, little inconsiderate things people do. none of these things will kill anybody, but they're just plain rude. that's all there is too it.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

swearing is religion based, if it wasnt "sin" it wouldnt be noticed at all. it doesnt bug me enough to bother my time and energy with.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i don't know about you, but when i hear someone swear for no reason, i'm not thinking "oooh, he's sinning!" i'm just thinking he needs to learn manners. and even if it is religion based, it bothers enough people that it becomes common courtesy to curb your tongue in public (and not just you, everybody). like i said, just because it doesn't offend you personally doesn't mean everyone else is wrong for being offended.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you know its considered offensive for woman to even show their face in some countries? just because the majority finds it offensive doesn't mean the majority is right. in fact, the majority seems to have made a habit of being wrong.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

your right. however, you're not fighting oppression, and you're not fighting "freedom" you're fighting for license to do whatever you please, whenever you please, without consequences. and that really just doesn't (and shouldn't) exist.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Gay marriage is the same as incest? Really? Incest babies have a higher chance of dying or being born with disabilities. Gay people can't procreate with each other, but they can adopt or use donners. Their kid would be raised in a loving family (although there are always exceptions, but it is so much harder for a gay couple to get kids I'm assuming that they would care for them right) and they would learn about acceptance early on. Family unit breaking up? A) What's wrong with that? The world is overpopulated anyway. B) What people do in their own homes is there business unless they are hurting someone. C) Who said a family unit had to be a mom, a dad, and a kid. Don't say god, cause 'his' existence is doubted by many smart people (and some dumb ones too but... The smart ones work best for this point) and if he was nice and caring and not a psychopath he would love all despite their sexual preference. As for the rest of it I agree.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

research incest sometime. you'll find some interesting things. when i said breaking down of family unit, i didn't mean reducing the number of families in general, i meant reducing the number or quality, functioning families, that raise kids who are able to reach their full potential. and, yes, this will affect society. it already has.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

and why is it you get to decide what a quality family is anyway? if people are happy who are you to judge. studies show children brought up by homosexual parents are more well rounded than the average child and more accepting of others, unlike you "family is the way we see it and should be that way for everyone" people who don't like to see differences in society and couldn't bare if your children found out not everyone id "just like you"

by Anonymous 14 years ago

that's not exactly what i'm talking about. i'm sure gay people can be very loving parents. i'm talking about all the single parents, divorcees, and adulterers out there that ruin families. if sex was more sacred, these things would be less likely to happen, families would be less likely to fall apart, and society would benefit.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

oh really? because my mom was married when she had me, and her husband cheated. now she is a single mom and does MUCH better than she did when she did have a partner. my mom my siblings and i have a great loving family, in a single parent home.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i'm not saying single parent/divorced families CAN'T succeed, i'm saying they're much less likely to because it's so much harder.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I fail to see the comparison of gay marriage to incest. Two concenting adults being legaly bonded by the regulations of the state that they are in is nothing compared to incest.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

(vvqt): ur cool.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Oh my God, can anyone say LIFE SAVER!!! I hate how everyone is so against gays and their rights.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

yall are so dumb...i agree with the person who said it was CONSIDERATE to not do those things in front of other people. Yeah, we don't have to listen to it; we can leave...but walk another five feet and theres another person doing it too!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

sucks shit for you then

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Here's my thing: You can do drugs. It's your body, if you wanna fuck it up really bad, go right ahead. However, drugs should be regulated like alcohol and tobacco are, and there should be taxes on it. But seriously, I feel that alcohol, tobacco and all other drugs should be illegal. But then again that could cause violence worse than that which is happening in Mexico today. I don't give a shit if you curse or not (obviously). It's your life, so do what you want with it. If you don't like cursing, okay then. Cover YOUR ears, not OUR mouths. If you don't want your kids doing it (and they'll end up doing it anyway, believe me) then use your parenting skills and discipline to teach them not to do it. Gays in general are TOTALLY awesome. If they wanna get married, then they should be able to. I don't care if you're gay at all. A gay/lesbian couple is the same thing as a straight couple. Pre-marital sex is alright with me. I see nothing wrong with it

by Anonymous 14 years ago

your just dumb...we can't just COVER our ears...if we ask you nicely to not use that language around us, then they shouldn't. They should respect us. Some people don't like hearing fuck, same as some black people don't like hearing nigger. Its rude, plain and simple. and a gay marriage is nothing like a straight one..they're technically not having sex, since it takes a man and woman to do that. they're just offing each other. drugs DO affect other people, and if you don't think they do, then you really are ingnorang

by Anonymous 14 years ago

*ignorant. idk what happened to that word lol

by Anonymous 14 years ago

fuck and nigger are now the same? i dont think so. and your sex is so pure?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

because theyre both offensive o.O and yeah, i'm a virgin, thank you very much.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

omg no way me too! I'm a virgin, but abstaining make you NO more pure than me, fuckyouverymuch.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

why should I respect you when you tell me not to talk a certain way? Ever heard of freedom of speech? You're pretty much telling me to do what YOU want me to. Why the fuck would I ever want to do that? Because you asked politely? Nigger is a fucked up word. I don't say it but I don't tell other people to not use it. I don't believe in doing that. And a marriage is a marriage. It's a piece of paper. When 2 people have sex, it's the same whether they're married or not. A man and a woman having sex is basically a man masturbating inside of a woman. 2 people are offing each other regardless of their sexes. And I DID NOT say that drugs didn't affect others. They do. But when 1 person uses it, it fucks up THEIR body, not someone next to you

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Is called manners! If someone askes you to please not say 'clown' because it brings uup bad memories, would you still say clown, just to be mean? And its not like i'd go tell a stranger 'hey don't say fuck, its not nice' but if i'm around you, and i'm FORCED to hear, i will ask you to please not say it. But if you only said it once or twice, then i won't, but if youre using it ALOT then yeah, i will say something. And yeah, you have freedom of speech, but as do i asking you not say one particular word. It won't ckill you not sto sauy fuck for five minutes.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

*its but when gay people have 'sex' you know its not real sex, right? because sex is when a penis goes into a vagina, not a womans finger into another womans vagina. and fine, be gay, get AIDS from have sodomy, your right, its not MY life or my body, but when you say 'butt out of other peoples lives' then we shouldn't run to them when they mess up, ya know what i'm saying? like we try to ask our brother not to do drugs, but he says its not your life, its mine! and then when he needs help, he comes crying back to us to help, after he told us to butt out? nooooo

by Anonymous 14 years ago

gay people don't get aids from gay sex, they get it from having sex (idk what else to call it to fit your definition) with someone with aids. I support abstinence, but i don't try to get into other people who have sex before marriage's business. Also, your brother IS part of YOUR life, or at least he should be. His doing drugs can be harmful to you. It is perfectly fine to stop him. It is HIS fault if he gets hurt from it though, and he must accept responsibility for his actions, but i agree with another post that says that they should go to rehab, that's always the best choice for an addict.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Gay marriage is wrong. Homosexuality in general. You weren't "Born that way", it's a choice. and I belive they're making the wrong one.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I think its a fetish...like some people like feet, and some people like black hair, etc etc. some people like the opposite sex. but idk, thats just my theory.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i meant straight sex in general. and guess what? i don't give a fuck if you're offended or not. have fun mopeing about it.@221501 (hannnnah):

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Write a commente @221501 (hannnnah): and even if it were a "fetish" its not your choice to tell them what they can and can not like or do. they're not out fucking on your lawn or in places you go so why do you care?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

buddy you are way to sensitive. I wasn't trying to say what they can and can not do, i was just saying my theory. grow a pair, please. who said i'm mopeing about it? your taking things to literal rotflol...geez dude grow up some

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Um, are you gay? If not, then how do you know whether or not it's a choice?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

the problem with this is that while things like drugs, premarital sex, and cursing may seem like they only effect you, they effect everyone around you. in reality, every choice you make has a kind of ripple effect and choosing to do things like that can really cause damage to people you love. Just thought I'd put that out there.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

This post caused way too much controversy. and im sure the OP didnt mean for that to happen, but inevitabely it happened. this site is just for fun, so CALM DOWN. and i hate it when people on here argue, its just stupid. stop having to have the last word.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

drugs can hurt a lot of people...........

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I'm a Christian and gay marriage is forbidden, not to mention two guys is just fucking weird together!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

maybe you're weird to everyone else? should we ban you form getting married too?

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Don't bother. Two key words here show that it won;t get through "I'm

Christian".

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I'm don't agree with murder, but it's fine if you do it. (sarcastic) I disagree with everything you said...

by Anonymous 14 years ago

that made no sense.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

it made perfect sense!

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Then have fun with yourself, you gay druggy slut, because now A LOT of people think lower of you.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I agree. Its my life, if i wanna fuck it up, let me. Its not your choice. So you say like "drinking is bad!" well cool, let me find out on my own. "Sex before marriage is bad!" too you, maybe, but maybe I'm in a good relationship. "Gay marriage is bad" uhm. no. If you love someone, you should be allowed to marry. How dare you deny someone something because of their sexuality. Let me make my OWN choices. You make your choices.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

wow, this debate is filling up my brain. but heres the stuff i agree with, i beleive gay marrage is fine, as long as the gay people are happy, but since some people for some odd reason hate gays, the gay people with the marrage should keep it secret for their own safety. as for drugs, drugs is pretty much affecting everybody around it, it's just wrong in some ways.

by Anonymous 14 years ago