According to Freud, every guy is looking for sex. I suppose guys who want companionship as well is what girls want.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I hate to break it to you, but the one guy just wants sex too. He's just going about it a different way.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

no guy is going to say no to sex haha. but i think this post is about what goal the guy is after, while it's generally true that most guys just want to get it in, there are some who just want a meaningful relationship.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Not true. They're just putting on that façade in order to look different than everyone else to the girl.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

not necessarily, I think that there are stages some guys go through. Like a major one is the need and want for sex, but after a while it becomes boring if you're not with someone who you truly like and care about. And then some guys would be on the pursuit of what they're missing, a real connection with someone who they can open up to and have a connection with that overshadows the lust that they have. I know some guys who genuinely just want a meaningful and lasting relationship, and i also know some guys who will lie and decieve to get into a girls pants

by Anonymous 12 years ago

No, they don't genuinely want a relationship. It's a ruse to make them look different than all the other guys. I'm not trying to spoil it for you if this is your method, but if you truly don't know this then you need to.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

so you're saying that all the guys out there just want sex? nothing more? i mean at least some guys know how to be mature and handle their emotions. My method is completely different then being fake and i know that some asshole will accuse me of being fake with this i'm counting on it being you so don't let me down, to throw myself out there i'll even say that I took my best girl friend to prom, she is very overweight and sex wasn't even an option with her, that doesn't mean that i didn't have the time of my life and wouldn't change it for the world. because i think spending time with someone who you truly care about and trust is better then getting wasted and having sex (like most of the people at my school did) and i'm sure that some other guys would agree with me on this that not all guys will lie and decieve for sex. some want more than that.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

And obviously you only took her to prom so that you could pat yourself on the back over it and show everyone how sensitive you are and how you "don't care" about getting laid. Later on you'll use this to try to get laid. I'm not saying you're a bad person; I'm just saying you shouldn't deny who you are or why you do things.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

no haha. if i wanted to get laid that night i could have. if that was my ultimate goal, why would i have delayed getting it? and for you to tell me who i am and why i do things is a pretty ignorant and dick move for your info. let me state what i said again since this is now getting into a different subject haha. no guy will say no to sex. if a girl wanted to hook up with me, i'd be an idiot not to go for it. but even while some guys will hook up and whatnot, there will always be some guys who want something more meaningful and lasting.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I wasn't talking about getting laid that night. I'm talking about getting laid in the future. Obviously the only reason you took your fat friend to the dance was so that you could tell everyone about it so they could see how sensitive you are. If you really did it because you wanted to, you wouldn't be telling the story and using it to pat yourself on the back. So this is a story you will tell down the road to a girl so she will see how sensitive you are and how you're different from other guys. Like I said, I'm not saying you're wrong for doing it, but you shouldn't deny that it's why you're doing it.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

and no i didn't just do it to show how sensitive i am. I mean that's always a plus haha, but I did it to show that I can be proof that there are guys out there that want more than sex. and by saying that, i know i will be attacked and questioned by everyone. and thats okay with me.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

obviously since all you want is sex, let me ask you this. when you see a girl, do you only focus on her physical attraction? if so then you're pretty shallow now gonna lie. and for me, i'm not trying to appear as the fake guy who comes out as the good guy (just a heads up this will be pretty corny) . i've said before that if a girl wanted to hook up i'd take it haha. but every now and then, a special girl comes around to all guys. this girl can be beyond gorgeous, but what makes her stand out can be something like her smile or the way her eyes smile and light up. or it can be something small like her laugh, her voice, the way she says your name. it can even be a flaw that she has (for example my prom date as i said before was overweight, but with that I knew I wouldn't have to show off my physical ability to impress her because I knew she wouldn't care for that, so i could really be myself around her) or it can be something bigger than all of that. like what her aspiriations are for her life, the goals she wants to pursue, etc. and so if you tell me that you've never met a girl who has a good sense of humor, any flaws that make you more comfortable with yourself, ...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Do you use that line on all the girls when you're trying to get laid? Like I said, I'm not faulting you. You should just be honest to yourself and admit that when you took whale-girl to prom, you were doing it for you and not her.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

oh yes i do use it when i'm trying to get laid, that's why i said it on a website... and no, actually i didn't do it for me. like i said before knowing that it is a nice act and I knew some girls would notice it was a plus. but to be brutally honest http://amirite.net/561315 actually inspired my asking my prom date haha. as lame as it is to have been inspired by an amirite post, it was a fun night.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Saying it on a website has nothing to do with it. You'll be saying it to every girl you meet from now on. If you really did it because you wanted to, you wouldn't have said anything about it because you wouldn't have thought anything about it. As it stands, it's quite obvious that you did it just for the kudos.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

well considering i cant get laid on a website goes against your claim that i only used it as a line. i said it to show that even i can be proof that not all guys just want sex as you claimed earlier. And what kudos? haha my reputation on this site is already bad, ask anyone. as it stands, it's quite obvious that you're attacking me with the same claim that I used that line to get attention and such because it completely disproves everything you said above. which i can understand, i mean i would be irritated as well if some guy just came on here and made me look like an ignorant jerk.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Laid on a website? Now you're just pretending to be dumb (I hope). As I was saying, if you really just went with her because you wanted to, you wouldn't even have thought of the fact that she's fat. As it were, you made it a point to make sure everyone knew that you took a fatty to prom, just so that they would know you're so sensitive and caring and not just looking to get laid. This type of self-promotion is something you will use down the road in talking about how you're DIFFERENT from other guys. I'm not faulting you for it, like I said, but I think you should at least be honest, if only with yourself.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

you're not seeing my point. i'm saying that there are some guys who want more than sex. and by me taking my overweight friend to prom, who I had no physical attraction with, proves that guys can have a meaningful time with a girl without lust.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

And you're not seeing my point. I understand that you're not sexually attracted to your fat friend. Nobody wants to sleep with fatties. However, the fact that you're shouting the story from the rooftops shows that you only did it so that you can use it to advertise to quality girls of how great a guy you are, which you will use to try to get laid in the future.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

laid with who? i don't care about my status as a guy on here haha. i just used myself as an example to show that not all guys just want sex. could i have used a friend of mine who has the same belief? Yes, but would it have been credible, not to anyone else besides him

by Anonymous 12 years ago

Where do you keep getting that I somehow think you're going to get laid by a website? I don't give a fuck about your, my, or anyone else's reputation on the Internet because the Internet isn't real life. I'm saying that you did it so that you can brag about it to girls you meet in real life and so that people who were there would see you doing it. There's nothing wrong with it, but stop trying to convince everyone that you did it just because you're a good guy instead of because you want to get laid, because it's very obvious to all of us that that's why you did it, mr. Sensitive.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I would like to say something. Based off both of your arguments (RJbasketball and Saudi80), I have concluded that both of you shed some real truth. However, I would like to add my opinion.. There is no question that guys have physical attraction to woman (at least most guys do). That is something that is nature and something that doesn't go away. But at the same time, there are girls that you are not attracted too. Saudi, it seems you claim that all guys want to get laid (and you're right in most aspects). However, I don't think that is always the number one answer. I know for me that I have never been in a real relationship. I have had my crushes based of attraction but also personality. I honestly do not think about getting laid with my crush. --And they say the best relationships are when you go from friends to "going out" rather then "action" to "going out". But back to your point. I think that RJBasketball saying that he went with a "fat girl" to prom was an example of him either wanting to go with a girl he LIKES for fun, or to show off down the road that he did take a fat girl to prom. It is perspective. You and I do not know his intention (unless he state...

by Anonymous 12 years ago

...states so. Lately i have been exploring something called "Personal Pride". It is where you have pride in thing that you only know about. It's information you purposely hold back because you only need and want you to know. I have explored this in my life and find it is the root of humility. In a way it defines us more then what we do say. Rjbasketball said he "took a fat girl". He specifically said fat girl so he could be using that as material for the future (as you say Saudi). But we don't know. He said it so we do have a rite to speculate and conclude, but only in opinion. It is clear that Saudi you feel guys are always looking to get laid. But Rjbasketball hold some truth that that isn't always president (at least in my life it isn't). It sometimes is easy to do things to get laid. But the man that doesn't you have to argue is a standout and different then the "common man." And maybe that man holds some proof that their is something more then what we are seeing. That not every guy is trying to get laid.

by Anonymous 12 years ago

every guy likes sex and even girls do; some are afraid of disclosing their views and thus they never say. Sex is not wrong; but, when sex is done without love, it is just a wastage of energy.

by Anonymous 12 years ago