+346 Waiting until you're married to have sex is fine and all, but what if you end up being the 40 year old virgin, or you never get married. There's got to be an age where you're like 'fuck it', amirite?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It's more like: "There's got to be an age where you're like 'fuck me'"

by Anonymous 13 years ago

literally.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Haha literally and figuratively!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow people. Did the thought ever cross your mind that there's more to life than sex, sex, and more sex?

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Yeah but that doesn't mean you don't want it.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I quite frankly could care less about it. Once I get married, fine. But until then whatever.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

ok well if you never get married your eventually going to want to have sex. That's kind of the point of the post.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Why would I want to have sex just for the sake of having sex? The only reason I'd want to have sex in the first place is because I deeply love the person. And in that case I'd marry the person. Then comes the sex. End of story.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

of you don't have the money to marry? If the other person doesn't believe in marriage(some people really don't)?...even so your opinions will change.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Oh please. If you don't have the money to marry you don't have the money to potentially have to raise a baby. Or deal with lifetime treatments for an STD. Then again you're only 15. So why am I even arguing? Come back when you've gone through a little more and seen your best friend's lives ruined by an STD or having to drop out of high school to have a baby.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I was going to change my wording because I didn't mean that you would change your mind about the sex but whatever. Bitch don't try to act like you know me! I may be 15 but that don't mean anything. You ever seen your cousin be beat to death by her mother while you sat couldn't do anything about it? I have. You had to raise a child that wasn't yours because the mother doesn't take care of her? I'm doing it. You ever had to watch the one person you truly love get scream at, cussed at! And hit by their father? I do it on a daily basis. You ever had to sit and watch your mother cry and cry and cry for months over something that you have no control over? I'm have and still am. You don't know what I've been through so you can't say anthing about that!

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I'm sorry you've been through that. I truly am. I was wrong to call you just 15. I still remember the hell I went through at that age. I just wish people could see what careless sex outside of marriage does. Even careful sex outside of marriage. It can ruin people's lives. Tear apart families. Leave a child with no parents. I've had friends thrown out on the streets at 15 because they got pregnant. You know what pain is. So I hope you can see the pain sex can and does cause outside of marriage.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

My life has not been ruined by having sex outside of marriage. I'm not saying that people having underage sex is a good idea. But as long as you are responsible and know the consequences and are prepared to deal with them then there is nothing wrong with having sex.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I understand what you're saying but my sister was 17 when she got pregnant by the guy she said she loves she had been with him since she was 14 now she's 21 and still with him and she would have had a great life if drugs hadn't ruined for her. My sisters bestfriend pregnant at the same age. She does have a great life. Another close friend pregnant at 18 has a great life. None of them were married but all of the got married (except my sister) after their child turned about 1. People don't realize that sometimes it takes something as drastic as that to push somebody and she them they right path.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

*I have, not I'm have.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Sexdoesnt Equal stds and pregnancy.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

No, but it can, even under the most careful circumstances. I had a best friend that had sex once with her boyfriend. Once. She was on the pill, he had a condom. But she still somehow got pregnant and her parents kicked her out on the streets. At 15.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Which you're never gonna get get get.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Thanks for the laugh. Point made. Haha.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

HA i get it

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Plus side of premarital sex: When you get married you're actually experienced so you don't suck in bed.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

but! if you and your spouse have never had sex, and you only experience it with each other, you wouldn't know whether or not they're "good" or "bad" in bed, because it wouldn't really matter. It'd be something that only you two get to share for the rest of your lives! it's a goal my boyfriend and I are focused on; we're waiting until our wedding night. The temptation is always there (we just celebrated 2 years together) but we know that the wait will be worth it <3

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I've never been stabbed in the face, but I do know it's not pleasant. You don't need to have experienced something before to know whether it's good or bad. If you're unsatisfied/bored, that's that.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I don't know who you are, but you're a hero.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You can't say the girls lives are ruined because they had sex or got an std or pregnant.. they're probably 20 tops so they have plenty of time to turn it around and make it better.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

You know what bad sex is when you're having it, even if you were a virgin. Trust me.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

(CowGirly) your virgina is just going to rotten off ;) (Ohno)

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Wow, that actually might have counted as a really lame insult if you actually knew how to reply to a comment and spell. But that was just a hilarious fail.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

Maybe its just cuz Im a dude, but unless your a religious person, I dont think theres a real reason not to lose your virginity whenever you want. I mean its not like its hurting other people. Do I think you should be a 12 year old slut? No. Of course not. You shouldn't have sex with a lot of people, simply becasue of diseases, but sex has really become what religion has made it out to be: a sacred bond between two people that is for use to create babies. In my opinion theres nothing wrong with having sex for fun, or simply becasue you want to. Again I am a male teenager who is an agnostic atheist, so you can jsut assume that these are the hormones talking.

by Anonymous 13 years ago

It is a personal choice for everyone, and just because you have sex outside of marriage, no matter how old you are, doesn't make them any less of a person.

by Anonymous 13 years ago