... I'd say it's more of a right than a privilege.
The people calling bisexuals whores- sorry you can't get any, but the fact that we care more about who a person IS than what equipment they have doesn't make us whores. Getting paid for sex makes you a whore, and having indiscriminate, unsafe sex with lots of people(regardless of gender) makes you a slut.
As for the girl saying that people are only bi because it's "popular" and everyone who is must be "promiscuous"... sorry some guy you like is into girls more adventurous and open-minded than you. I'm sure you'll find yourself a prude to hook up with, and you guys can have boring, vanilla sex until you die. Or you can, while he has fun on the side.
I'm honestly confused as to if this post if supporting or not bisexuality. All I can say is, don't be bi for attention. Don't. It makes the rest of us who actually struggled look like real pussies.
I disagreed, but I probably have a biased opinion.
Being from a small town, all the bisexuals in my school are doing it as a fad or for the surplus of sex, and a lot of them find it okay to have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time. And the bisexuals I saw on True Life weren't much better.
I truly respect the bisexuals who aren't doing it for a fad, sex and who don't believe you should have a boyfriend and a girlfriend at the same time.
It's just that where I come from, all the people in my city are... ugh.
To those of you being ignorant: Stop. I'm a woman who is bi-sexual. I am attracted to both sexes but for the past 10 years have only dated men. Gays, lesbians, and bi's are told almost everyday that what they are is bad, wrong, or a sin. TRUE bi-sexuals have a choice on who they are with, just not who they are attracted to. I think those who do it for the attention or sex should be called out on it. Those are the ones everyone finds disgusting. But the true ones are no different than anyone. And should be treated as such. If you know someone who is a fake please do us all a favor and tell them to their face. I have nothing against anyone who thinks homo- or bi- sexuality is gross, wrong, or a sin. That's your opinion or belief. I don't hate you for being you, so don't hate me for being me.
You think being bisexual is a choice? O_o;
You think people choose to be attracted to both sexes? -.-
Im bisexual but its because of how i am around guys a lot of the time and my mental attraction to them. Im a guy but i always feel secure around certain people. I honestly care a bout personality and looks more than if its a boy or a girl. I know that some people might not find it correct due to religious reasoning but regardless of this some people will always be atracted to the same sex.
That's an...interesting way of looking at it ._.
This person is saying that being bi isn't a choice, but it's not a bad thing either. He's not saying it isn't a right, and that it can be taken away.
Life in general is a privelage (:
My girlfriend is bi and we have a relationship based on true love, not sex. People judge bi, gay, and lesbians by their worst members because they have no solid evidence to back up their hatred. In the end they are ignorant. I have no problem if you don't like homosexual or bisexual people, your free to express your opinion. But look into why you hate them and and be prepared to defend it or else people like me will challenge it. And no, just because is not a solid defense.
The people who claim to be bi for the sex or the attention are not really bi. I am bi, even though I've never dated a woman. I've been attracted to and had crushes on women, but I've never dated one. I've also never told anyone I was bi to get more attention. My friends and family know, but I don't go around just telling people.
I do hate when people claim to be bi just for sex or attention. I also really dislike when people say being bi is wrong. I didn't choose who I'm attracted to. However, I choose who to date and I choose to be monogamous. For all you haters, open up your minds and stop being stupid. We don't hate you so please don't hate us.
How can people say no way to this ? D:
wow. people are voting no for totally different reasons
Awww, someone can't get girls to pretend to be bi for HIS attention... lol! That's the only reason a guy would EVER talk shit about that! I love me some attention whores. That's some easy pickings.
as hannah montana said YOU GET THE BEST OF BOTH WORLDS
@337709 (Elise): i don't get how you think its gross i've got like four or five friends who are bisexual i don't think its gross. just normal for them.
@337828 (ginnyweasley_3): It is really gross. It should be illigal. God made cocks and pussy for a reason. Not so two fags can sword fight.
i think you need to grow up and stop being so narrow minded! everyone should have the right to love who they love dispite gender/race/religion/etc.
Sorry i'm a true american. If I were president it'd be illigal in all states. The only reason it's accpeted is because no one tells them it's wrong and everyone encourages the gays.
A "True American" believes in freedom of choice. That's something many of us have forgot. Give any excuse you want to think it's wrong, in the end your just ignorant and homophobic. I'm straight but have a gay friend, two bi friends, and my girlfriend is bi. I have talked to them and know they are no different than us and deserve to be treated as such. And btw, you would never make President, Every gay or bi person along with there friends would automatically withhold their votes from you.
Well, it's a great thing that you'll never be president.
@338382 (Chris): it's because it's not wrong. everyone is allowed to love whop they want to because there is nothing wrong with it. also to the fact that your a "true American" if thats what a true American is i'm glad i'm Canadian because we accept everyone for who they are. even assholes like you.
A close-minded person like you would never be President.
I'm sorry, I thought that true Americans believed that all people were created equal? Whatever happened to that?
How is being bisexual gross? It's not like we want to have sex with everyone at the same time. We're just attracted to both sexes. I wouldn't have sex with a man and woman and the same time, I don't want to share.
Promiscuity is gross. But I for one didn't choose to be bi. I actually always thought I was straight until I fell in love with my best friend. I couldn't control that just like I couldn't control which guys I liked.
I voted "no" not because I think bisexuals are bad, but because I know it's no more a choice than being gay. Actually, this is a stupid and poorly-worded post.
Everyone calm down!
This is ridiculous.
homosexuals are gay!!!
It isn't a choice or a privilege, so I'm neutral on this one. ^^
I get being homosexual and i get being straight, but nowadays bisexuality is more like a fad, because people think its hot and cool or they just want an excuse to be with whoever they want. I mean...you cant have a hotdog AND a taco. Not meaning to be like offensive or anything, just my opinion. Troll me all you want.
You don't have a right to be straight then. Youre now going to be fucked by dogs. Have fun.
*being a whore is a privilege not a choice
Whore and bisexual do not mean the same thing.
yes they are perfectly interchangeable words.
No they're not. I'm bisexual and me and my girlfriend have never even had sex.
(shelbica):I agree, indeed some people do give it a bad name but the same can be said for straight people. Don't judge bi people by their worst, people who just say their bi for the sex. I personally think bi people are lucky. Look at us straight people, we only have one gender to find the person of our dreams. Bi people can choose from either gender and are twice as likely to find their soul mate.
What the heck?
sarcasm. Bisexuals just like sex, they will take whatever they can get. sounds like a choice to me
Do NOT go there.
Just because you are bi-sexual doesn't mean you are that way for sex. Yes, there are some douche-bags that decide they WANT to be bi sexual for the sex-appeal, but they are not what a bi-sexual is. I choose to be the way I am because gender should never be a part of what makes you love someone.
I think that statement is beautiful.
My friend who is gay said to me once
"If you take away the private parts, it's just love."
and honestly, that's all it is . (:
Okay. So I can't marry the man I love- No, scratch that- I can't be WITH the man I love because more people think I'm a whore than don't?
Ignorance never got anyone anywhere in life, honey.
no, I'm not ignorant. of course I've not met many bisexual boys, but uh, those "ill be bisexual 'cause the boys like it" type girls give y'all a bad rep
Yes. That is quite fair.
It's a privilege because people shouldn't be gay in the first place, but we let them anyways.
No you don't. Most people bitch and whine about it as if they're going to change for them. >_>;