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Love is fleeting. It's just something you feel when chemicals are released from your brain. It's stupid to say either those chemicals are either always going to be there or they never got released at all. This is like claiming "if you're not still mad at someone, then you weren't ever mad at all"
Congrats to you and Len for knowing how to phrase that.
Precisely what I was thinking.
Love isn't as special as we make it out to be.
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Agreeeed!!! (:
i know :( i can dream right? he will always be my little Won Won
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Whoa your name is on both lists :o
I noticed~
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By the way, is the moderator job still available :/?
It sucks, but it's true. You love someone no matter what they put you through or how much they hurt you. Even when it's not romantic-type love.
If I loved someone, then they tried to kill me and my family, I won't love them anymore.
Yeaaah...no. What about situations where you love someone, and they abuse you almost to the point of death. Once you leave the situation, you won't be loving that person anymore.
if you truly loved them, yeah you would still love them after you left. you just can't stay in the relationship because you will be in harms way. and how can you know that? have you ever been in an abusive relationship? thats just the logical idea, that you stop loving someone who hurts you
Yes, actually I have. I dated him for three years and was engaged to him when I finally left. I don't love him at all anymore. So I kinda know what I'm talking about here.
you absolutely know what you're talking about. of course. but you never said that you loved him. and this is just my opinion. you are free to disagree
so great.
unfortunately you are very right
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I love this. So much. Because as much as it hurts, it's true. I don't think it's possible to stop loving someone, its a case of either you never loved them, (and either thought you did, or pretended you did) or you're fooling yourself and you still do
I agree, but I think the kind of love can change. (I always think of Buffy and Angel, Buffy will always love Angel, but not in the same way, he was her first love, all special, but Spike is who she romantically loves later(yes, Spuffy is my OTP)). That person will always be in your heart, but you won't necessarily love-love them, as in want to spend the rest of your life with them.
Since loving someone is a choice you make and not just a feeling, I think it's absolutely possible to stop loving someone.
excuse me?? you think that its a choice to love someone? you just decide to start loving someone? you walk down the street and say "i think i'll fall in love with you today!"
I think what you consider "falling in love" to be is actually lust. Loving someone is putting their needs before yours, sacrificing everything for them, and generally treating them how you'd want to be treated. It's not just that warm and fuzzy feeling you get in your stomach when you look at them.
i agree that that's definitely part of it, but going through the motions of what someone in love would do does not mean you are in love with them
wow i totally agree with you about everything, even the post to the previous person. Sometimes you may think you love someone, but you dont until you fall "out" of love with them... ok you cannot fall out of love with anyone, love is forever, it doesnt go away, so therefore you never really loved them in the first place, they were just there. Real deep true intense love doesnt ever leave you.
exactly! i think that if you fall out of love with someone it's either because you just thought you were in love or you're lying to yourself and you really do still love them
you dont just DECIDE to start loving someone. Thats the stupidest thing i've ever heard. If you really love them then you dont decide to and if it's true love then you'll never stop loving them no matter what happens.
exactly my point! you put what i meant into the perfect description
You're way toop young to have an opinion on love that's not outlandishly immature and naive. Sorry
You wanna know what the truth is? I still love you and I probably will love you for a very long time. But I can't just be your buddy, because as much as i enjoy the concept of being just friends in reality it's a bizarre form of torture and I'm just not willing to participate in it. So right now what i wanna do is just move on and get over you and the only way for me to do that is to not be around you anymore.
I Love you shay , I love you a lot
OMG THIS POST IS GENIUS! ITS SOOO TRUE. BEAUTIFUL! <3