You never stop loving someone. Either you never did or you always will, amirite?

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by Anonymous 14 years ago

Agreeeed!!! (:

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i know :( i can dream right? he will always be my little Won Won

by Anonymous 14 years ago

OMG THIS POST IS GENIUS! ITS SOOO TRUE. BEAUTIFUL! <3

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Yeaaah...no. What about situations where you love someone, and they abuse you almost to the point of death. Once you leave the situation, you won't be loving that person anymore.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

if you truly loved them, yeah you would still love them after you left. you just can't stay in the relationship because you will be in harms way. and how can you know that? have you ever been in an abusive relationship? thats just the logical idea, that you stop loving someone who hurts you

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Yes, actually I have. I dated him for three years and was engaged to him when I finally left. I don't love him at all anymore. So I kinda know what I'm talking about here.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you absolutely know what you're talking about. of course. but you never said that you loved him. and this is just my opinion. you are free to disagree

by Anonymous 14 years ago

so great.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

Since loving someone is a choice you make and not just a feeling, I think it's absolutely possible to stop loving someone.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

excuse me?? you think that its a choice to love someone? you just decide to start loving someone? you walk down the street and say "i think i'll fall in love with you today!"

by Anonymous 14 years ago

I think what you consider "falling in love" to be is actually lust. Loving someone is putting their needs before yours, sacrificing everything for them, and generally treating them how you'd want to be treated. It's not just that warm and fuzzy feeling you get in your stomach when you look at them.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

i agree that that's definitely part of it, but going through the motions of what someone in love would do does not mean you are in love with them

by Anonymous 14 years ago

wow i totally agree with you about everything, even the post to the previous person. Sometimes you may think you love someone, but you dont until you fall "out" of love with them... ok you cannot fall out of love with anyone, love is forever, it doesnt go away, so therefore you never really loved them in the first place, they were just there. Real deep true intense love doesnt ever leave you.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

exactly! i think that if you fall out of love with someone it's either because you just thought you were in love or you're lying to yourself and you really do still love them

by Anonymous 14 years ago

you dont just DECIDE to start loving someone. Thats the stupidest thing i've ever heard. If you really love them then you dont *decide* to and if it's true love then you'll never stop loving them no matter what happens.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

exactly my point! you put what i meant into the perfect description

by Anonymous 14 years ago

unfortunately you are very right

by Anonymous 14 years ago

It sucks, but it's true. You love someone no matter what they put you through or how much they hurt you. Even when it's not romantic-type love.

by Anonymous 14 years ago

... baaaaawwwwwwwwww frown

by Anonymous 13 years ago

I love this. So much. Because as much as it hurts, it's true. I don't think it's possible to stop loving someone, its a case of either you never loved them, (and either thought you did, or pretended you did) or you're fooling yourself and you still do

by Anonymous 12 years ago

You wanna know what the truth is? I still love you and I probably will love you for a very long time. But I can't just be your buddy, because as much as i enjoy the concept of being just friends in reality it's a bizarre form of torture and I'm just not willing to participate in it. So right now what i wanna do is just move on and get over you and the only way for me to do that is to not be around you anymore. I Love you shay , I love you a lot

by Anonymous 12 years ago

I agree, but I think the kind of love can change. (I always think of Buffy and Angel, Buffy will always love Angel, but not in the same way, he was her first love, all special, but Spike is who she romantically loves later(yes, Spuffy is my OTP)). That person will always be in your heart, but you won't necessarily love-love them, as in want to spend the rest of your life with them.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Love is fleeting. It's just something you feel when chemicals are released from your brain. It's stupid to say either those chemicals are either always going to be there or they never got released at all. This is like claiming "if you're not still mad at someone, then you weren't ever mad at all"

by Anonymous 11 years ago

Congrats to you and Len for knowing how to phrase that.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

If I loved someone, then they tried to kill me and my family, I won't love them anymore.

by Anonymous 11 years ago

You're way toop young to have an opinion on love that's not outlandishly immature and naive. Sorry

by Anonymous 11 years ago