People shouldn't use love as a way of justifying their wrong actions. "Yeah I ruined your life, but I did it because I love you." or "I know I'm acting up, being an evil ***** and giving you a hard time because I'm insecure, but I love you." "Okay, YES I had sex with him, but I was thinking of you the entire time. You are the one I love not him." " I killed your dog because I love you. It was taking your love from me." "I am a horrible BFF but I love you" "I'm only shoving my religious beliefs down your throat because god loves you." That includes partners, friends and family. NOT COOL, amirite?